My girlfriend of two years either cheated on me or is just a total jerk. She went out saturday night, out of town, ex-boyfriend was present, didn't return my calls. She didn't even answer her phone in the morning. She says I am insecure? Same issues keep coming up, ex-boyfriend calls her periodically professes his love, sends her gifts, even says he moved to the area to try to get back together with her. I don't want to accuse her of cheating but, I've had it. What do I say to end it, she knows I find this kind of behaivior unacceptable and she knows it upsets me. By the way, she always accuses me of things, how ironic.
2006-10-16 09:36:09 · 16 answers · asked by orangecrate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ouch! Sorry to hear you're going through that kind of continuous pain.
You're smart enough to break up with her (good for you!). I'd be honest. Tell her that trust and and honesty are very important to you; that you need to have those in a relationship and you question that you've ever had those things from her. Tell her that you are done competing with her ex (or her ego...I think that she likes the fact the the ex keeps showing up), and you are moving on.
Not all girls are so careless with their boyfriend's feelings. Good luck!
2006-10-16 09:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by dashelamet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like something could be going on. Tell her that you don't want to play her games anymore, and tell her it's best to part ways.Usually the accuser has already done whatever they are accusing someone else of...Remind her that when she is pointing a finger at YOU, there are 3 more pointing back at her.
2006-10-16 16:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, what you should do is not call her back.the next time you see her don't acknowledge that she is present. let her know that you can get by with out her.(even though you probably can't} a women wants a man not an insecure little boy. show her her actions don't bother you and more than likely she will come running back to you. and you will feel better about yourself for having some balls!
2006-10-16 16:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by scottb62821 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i would you. i would say i think we should go are different ways because you go out with your ex boyfriend and that mess up. i shouldn't be treat this way and i wont put up with this **** from you. she need to grow up too. she doesn't need to be doing that kind of **** and you need to put your foot down and put a stop to this. she either want you or then she can hit the road. so that my advise. i hope it help you and good luck and dump her because there a better girl out there for you and don't put up with that ****.
2006-10-16 16:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilty ones usually accuse the other to make up for their bad conscience.
2006-10-16 16:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest ,because she can"t be honest to you she does not respect you and has no respect for herself....This relationship is OVER.....I deserve a girl who is mature enough to make a commitment and who will RESPECT me for the person I am.
2006-10-16 16:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her u have had enough. tell her how you feel. if she's having fun with another guy then she does not deserve your attention. i hope you find a girl that repects you and your values. Wish you luck.
2006-10-16 16:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u is a real man and u breaking up 4 a good perpose just say it
2006-10-16 16:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by inocent me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could tell her that the relationship is not working out & u figured that she is better off w/ out u !! Because u dont want to tell her u are better w/ out her
2006-10-16 16:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by Maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything. Be a men, be proud of who you are.
No revenge or stupid excuses everything is clear.
Live her - move on
2006-10-16 16:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋