I went on this amazing date with this really great guy, he seemed really into me, we cuddled, and hung out, and he gave me a kiss goodnight and everything. It been 5 days since I've heard anything from him. So do I keep waiting? Do I call? Do I send him an email?
2006-10-16 09:33:57 · 16 answers · asked by missmartini313 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy is really into a girl, he will call and ask her out for a second date. There's a slight possibility that he's shy, so you could try emailing him. Just tell him you had a great time and that you really liked hanging out with him. If he doesn't respond or ask you out again, move on.
2006-10-16 09:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him a few more days. You never know what might have happened during those 5 days. I won't ever forget, my now husband, didn't call me for a week. I was going nuts. We had a great first date and I was like well when he calls he can forget it. When he did call, I ran to the phone...lol, but he was with his brother who had been shot! So something could have happened in his life that took precedent over the girl he had one date with. But if he doesn't call you in a couple more days, then more than likely he won't. You could go ahead and call him; it won't hurt anything if you do. If he doesn't answer leave a voice mail and just say, "Hey, had a great time the other night, was wondering if we could have a replay." Then if he doesn't return that phone call, you can forget him. Or just go ahead and forget him now, heck you can go out with other guys. You have all kinds of choices, go with what you feel is best. Good luck.
2006-10-16 09:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by GreeneyedCowgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say rule of thumb is wait 3 days. If he doesn't call by then, then he's not interested.
But these days, things do come up. He could be working overtime, someone sick in the family, away for business, ect...
It's not a bad idea to give him a "hey, what's up?" phone call. He may be too shy to make the next move, and he's leaving it up to you. Just tell him u had a good time and was wondering what he was doing this weekend(or whenever). If he responds back, there u go. If he denies you, then he is not into you.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-16 09:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not contact him. Honestly, 5 days is too many days. He should have set up the 2nd date before he dropped you off from the 1st one. At the very least he should have called the following day. He's just not that into you. Lose his #.
2006-10-16 09:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call... Send him an e-mail inviting him to something generic. No response, no call within two days after... Write him off...
2006-10-16 09:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, 5 days and nothing??? Call him once. and if he doesn't answer, or return your call w/in 24hours, I would say forget it.... But atleast out the effort of trying to reach him.. Seems like he's not that into you..
2006-10-16 09:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this were me - I'd call him...ONCE. If he doesn't pick up leave him a casual "just to say hi" message. If you don't hear from him, then lose his number!
If he does pick up, just ask him how he's been, blah blah blah. You should be able to tell from his reaction whether or not he's into you.
Good luck :)
2006-10-16 09:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read the book: He's Just Not That Into You. It will somewhat explain. It doesn't ease the pain but -- If he really liked you/wanted you -- wild horses could not keep him away.
2006-10-16 09:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by Freya T 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give him another week and if he doesn't call, move on. He knows how to get ahold of you and he can pick that phone up just as easily as you can.
2006-10-16 09:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him.... i know that its hard but let him call you. If you see him than talk to him and tell him you had a good time and would like to go out again and see what his response is.
2006-10-16 09:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋