ok i've known him since middle school (now in 11th grade) and since then we have been great friends. we've gone to the movies hungout at eachothers houses and in public places. but there have been times when we did things that people who are friends usually don't do. (kissing, touchin..ect. ) but nothing like super major! when we were doing some of these thing s he had a gf at the time. but he saw her like every month or so. me and him lve a 5min walk from one another. but since a few months a go his gf broke up with him not because he told her what we did( he did tell her which was good in a way) but for ome other reason. is it possible for me and him to be together as bf and gf?
2006-10-16 09:30:57 · 16 answers · asked by JackieJaguar08 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says he misses me when im not home when he IM's me. we never did anything nasty, we like eachother and idk if we should persue our relationship further.
2006-10-16 09:39:23 · update #1
From your description of your relationship it seems like its very possible. But is it just the physical attraction you have, or is there a real connection? How does he feel about you?
If he's single now, this is your chance to talk to him and find out if he REALLY has feelings for you or if it was just a physical thing.
Good luck :)
2006-10-16 09:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...It's ok for 'friends' to do the kissing thing.
Second...He told her because subconsciously, he wanted his relationship with her to fail.
Third...IF he cheated on her with you, he WILL cheat on you with someone else. Once a cheater, always a cheater. It's just how it works.
It is possible for you two to hook up, BUT be carefull...I would expect him to cheat on you. I've seen it WAY too many times to be wrong.
NO...He's not different. No, it doesn't matter that I don't know him personally or what he says to you. It's all the same and guys say all the right things.
Take it from a guy...I know these things.
2006-10-16 16:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what are you waiting for, you either make your move or you sit on the bench, you play or you don't play, what would be your major hurdle, your friend ship, he already likes you, just spend alot of time with him, and flirt with him so he has no doubt, but put the ball in his court, Gosh reading this over again I sound like I'm a coach, talking to a basketball team?
2006-10-16 16:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he wants you, and you can have him. But it's a gamble on friendship, which has a higher chance of lasting forever. Just make eachother promise that no matter what happens, you'll both be friends when you're finished. It worked for me and my girlfriend who was a friend before. She's my friend again now, and it was worth it because things were good while they lasted.
2006-10-16 16:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by dropdeadchicken28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is possible. I am just wondering about the trust issue. He cheated on his ex gf with you but did not break up with her for you. Are you sure he won't do the same to you? I am not saying that he will I am just saying it is something you need to think about.
2006-10-16 16:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can try if you love him but then you will be a second rated girl because he is coming to you only because he broke up with the girl.
2006-10-16 16:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! Some of the best love is being friends first.
2006-10-16 16:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's just a matter of time
2006-10-16 16:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi im sexy nice to meet you.
i think you shoudl go for it!
he will be in a whirl wind!
like after you seduce him he wont know
what happened!
like be sexual yet CLASSY!
youll have to the boys runnin up and down!
you go girl
PAYCE!
2006-10-16 16:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure... but can u handle it?
i mean..if he did those things with u while he had a gf..why wouldn't do them with some other chick when he is with you?
2006-10-16 16:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by careful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋