If your live-in boyfriend was recieving calls from an ex..(has a tattoo of her name on his arm) and doesn't like to talk about it! and says nothing is going on!!! And you've told him to tell her to stop, and he says, "i have no control over what she does!" isn't that the stupidest thing someone can say???? On top of that Some random girl calls your phone and tells you that she's his baby's mama and you confront him... and he deny's the kid???? What would you do ?????
2006-10-16 09:26:48 · 19 answers · asked by Gatitabella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for giving me that advise!!! im not stupid and i think its obvious to leave him!!!!! I gave him the benifit of the doubt but his ex calling again was the last straw... we had an arguement last night @ about 1:30am i heard his phone vibrating i threw the phone at him and said she was calling my mistake wasnt to answer and tell her off... but i will i have her number.... wink wink and trust me he will be out after tonight!!! Thanks guys!!!!
2006-10-16 09:50:16 · update #1
********** leave that man, get outta your lease if its that, and if he isn't on the contract kick his *** out the house... mainly this man is either cheating on you or basically never stopped being involved with his ex, and your the woman on the side... that he lives with, but anyways listen that needs to end cause its not going anywhere
2006-10-16 09:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of his ***. That's what I would do. I know it's easier said than done, but he's got too much baggage. Tell him to talk to you after he gets rid of all these other women. And all he has to do is tell the one ***** to stop calling, how hard is that, if he won't you should. And if you don't want to, I will, lol. I hate stupid chicks like that. Well good luck
2006-10-16 09:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by ~~kelly~~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 Options: 1) Easy one - Dump Him! 2) Do the same thing to him - but i am sure you are not like him, hence you would be faking it! If he is genuinely in love with you or likes you he will change. If he is a bad guy down inside his heart n mind then he doesnt deserve you anyways! Cheers, x, Tom. bh37bh37@yahoo.com
2006-10-16 09:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all.. A man that tattoed a womans name on himself is a punk, so I wouldn't be w/ anyman like that. 2nd, if you have any insecurities about the relationship just get out. All that drama is not worth it...
2006-10-16 09:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out quick! He sounds like a liar and if you can't trust him--it's not worth having a relationship with him! Oh, that would drive me crazy...and it has, I have been there and done that!
2006-10-16 09:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be feeling that he is cheating on me. If he really loves you he would have nerve to tell his ex not to call because that's disrespectful to his girlfriend. You need ta talk ta him about all that.
2006-10-16 09:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to not to talk to her when she calls unless it is about their baby if he has had one with her. And tell him he'd better tell you what they talked about, and if he won't do that RUN, RUN, RUN away.
But the random girl is a BIG No No. So, run any way.
2006-10-16 09:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the F out!
2006-10-16 09:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Craig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He better fess up and tell you what's really going on or my advice would be to move on. He is sounding shady.
2006-10-16 09:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it needs to stop or you are out of there. its hard enough to make a relation work w/o outside interference
2006-10-16 09:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by brutus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋