ok, not just a "woops that was an accident" one time type of deal, but like to just pass gas anytime, or clear your throat and spit.... is it a guy thing? or a personal thing??? and why would you find it ok to do these persona things in front of your girlfriend just because you "feel close to them"???
2006-10-16 09:24:09 · 22 answers · asked by susieq 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO NO NO! It's gross and I wouldn't go out with anyone who did that! No way!
2006-10-16 09:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Emma 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Passing gas or cutting-the-cheese is a normal body function. Just be polite about it. Don't gloat.
As for spitting, I wouldn't do it in less your girlfriend does it. Even then, I'd think twice.
(NOTE: There are very few women that actually spit. You'd have a greater chance of being struck by lightning than meeting one.)
2006-10-16 09:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Oklahoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 25 years of marriage my husband has never passed gas nor burped in front of me. When he has to clear his throat he leaves the room and does it, if we are outside and he needs to spit he turns his whole body away from me and walks a couple of steps away. Comfortable with each other means you don't argue over where you are going for dinner you just go to be together it has nothing to do with bodily functions.
2006-10-16 09:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay if like you are in public then (The boyfriend) excuse yourself and go do these things, but if you are together all of the time and in private then his guard may be down, or figures you are around so much he has seen some grose things from you also.
Never know unless you confront him, do it politely so as not to put him on the defensive, but ask him if he is doing it on purpose and if so, then ask does he disrespect you that much? Let him know that it offends you.
2006-10-17 09:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by Nedan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest it depends on the guy and the girl he is with.
Some women don't get bothered by it, whereas many do.
Some men don't do it (looks in mirror), whereas some men do.
Some people have medical conditions that they cannot help doing those things..... so for them, would it be wrong? I mean, if they could literally choke and die on phlegm by not discharging it, should they hold it in when around their lady just to please her sensitivities? Or should she understand that he has a medical condition and can't help himself?
Not to say every male that does this has a condition. But some do.
Also, this problem is not restricted to males. There are females in this world that do the same thing.
2006-10-16 09:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I live with my girlfriend and it would be imposibe to stop the most human bodily functions, but Ican try to be a gentleman and spit in another room like any other bodily function but farting that is the one I just can't do anything about, if its real stank than I'll leave the room, but I'm always farting so she live with that, I am only human.
2006-10-16 09:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by beezdaczar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know of people who are fine with it and others who are not. I'm in the middle. I wouldn't just let them rip in front of a significant other purposely and without a second thought. However, if something slips out.... well then.... we can laugh about it without too much embarassment. So for me, I'm ok with it in moderation, but find it repulsive when a guy just lets them flow in front of me too freely. The odd exception is funny, if it's the norm, it's unsexy!
2006-10-16 09:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a woman who passes gas in front of fellows, i would not do it on purpose, yet sometimes it in simple terms occurs. all of us do it, its organic and that i could extremely he hear it, then me being uncomfortable. I additionally discover various men have double standards whilst it incorporates farting, its ok in the event that they do it in front of you, yet no longer any incorrect way around. i genuinely dont think of i could date a guy if he didnt settle for the reality that when in a on the same time because it become going to take place.
2016-10-19 12:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by huegel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do spit in front of my G/F & she tells me when my distance has improved, I'm up to about 16' on a good day with the wind @ my back, & she farts around me all the time, & I gasp for the nearest fresh air supple.
2006-10-16 09:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some guys get to a comfort level with their significant other and end up seeing their GF as one of the guys. I don't think it's appropriate and therefore do not do such things in front or around my GF. I think it's rude and disrespectful to do that in front of her...with the guys, that's a totally different story.
2006-10-16 09:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really kewl to do those things in front of ANYONE (just because you feel like it). They are not kewl and should be reserved for private moments, unless it cannot be helped.
Trust us guys...we don't think it's kewl you feel relaxed enough to spit or fart around us...we start to wonder what we initially found appealing in you, that we didn't realize you were actually so crude/vulgar...
2006-10-16 09:27:37 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋