She is cheerleader, very pretty, and a lot of fun. I have been to her house and spent time with her and had a lot of fun. I feel the rumors are not true. I want this girl to be my girlfirend. Should I ask her? I am after the relationship and not the rumored sex.
2006-10-16 09:16:22 · 13 answers · asked by Tony D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All it takes is one word to create a negative impression about anyone. Be prepared to play a bigger supporting role if you become a pair coz tongues wag and people just enjoy trashing someone popular (and she seems darn popular from what u say). Go ahead and ask her if you are prepared mentally to not doubt her ever and to give her personal space. Nobody else can be the judge of what you feel she truly is. Never ask anyone's advice on matters of the heart. Last but not the least, once you give your heart, never ever go back on it.
2006-10-16 09:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, you should go for it. I'm assuming your in high school and if you haven't realized it yet, high school is full of rumors and other gossip that just isn't always true. Don't let her "bad reputation" keep you from dating her. If you do, you could be robbing yourself of meeting someone very sweet and fun. If you are worried about YOUR reputation, that is something you'll have to deal with on your own. The worse that could happen is that the rumors are true, but all you would have to do is simply break up with her and get out of the relationship if you aren't happy.
2006-10-16 16:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date and if she has some different thoughts on this then explain to her what you just wrote in the essay. Just ask her out, take it slow and she how she reacts. If she wants sex after the first date then she's probably easy like everyone says but if she doesnt then the rumors are untrue.Good Luck.
2006-10-16 16:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by jaide1108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if uve gotten to know her and you like her, then go for it. It's up to you to believe rumors. It how you trust her that matters. Get to know her more and you'll know whether the rumors are true or not. Base your thoughts about her on opinions you've formed yourself from seeing her. Outside sources can be true sometimes, but most of the time u should go with your own feelings.
2006-10-16 16:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by coochie1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the rumors are true, it's likely she'll cheat if she likes someone else. (yeah my best friends personality seems to match hers) a bunch of guys like her, but she's only in an off and on relatinship with one, but cheated on him like 400 times and only told him about a few of them..
2006-10-16 16:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by noname446 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in it because you genuinely care about her, then yes, ask her out. I'd be worried about her cheating on you though, especially if she is as skanky as those rumors imply.
2006-10-16 16:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by Danica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to gossip! Only mean people puts out rumours like that. I say go for it.
2006-10-16 16:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by Vanilla C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it.
You have to learn to just live your life and not care what your peers say or do. If you like her, then have a turn.
2006-10-16 16:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by Nep-Tunes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe people are just jealous or so. Just find out for yourself. How are we supposed to know lol?
2006-10-16 16:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by BarbieQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off,
Does she like you?
second,
it doesn't matter what others think, go for what you think
third,
I think if you like her and there is a reasonable chance that she likes you, then you should go for it ^^ Good luck
2006-10-16 16:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋