If a male is saving himself for marriage he is considered as not being a real man and a woman is glorified by the male if he is her first. Also if a woman wears a white wedding dress and she is not a virgin she is a disgrace.
2006-10-16 08:58:53 · 14 answers · asked by Lady A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if a guy wants to save himself for marriage, that is an honorable thing. And if he finds a girl who is also saving herself, then he doesn't have to worry about her thinking he sucks in the sack. She has nothing to compare it to. You don't have to screw a bunch of women to be "good in bed". You could learn just as much by screwing one woman often. And imagine what an exciting adventure it would be to explore and discover that world together.
2006-10-16 09:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by ootxmusicgirloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't by into those foolish talks. If a man is a virgin I commend him and I wouldn't make fun of him or think anything of himr. That's a good thing! I wish I could find me a virgin guy. As far as a woman wearing a white wedding dress, that's her perogative whether she's a virgin or not. Who gives a rat! People need to stay out of other people's lives then maybe the world would be a better place.
2006-10-16 16:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately society has made us beleive all that crap!
there is nothing wrong with any of it...!
-a man saving himself until marraige
-a woman walking down the aisle in white who is not a virgin
-a woman saving herself and wearing white or not
there is nothing wrong with any of these
a wedding is a wedding to the people getting married who love eachother and want to spend the rest of their lives together, not who is a virgin or not and not who can where white or not
a woman who wears white walking down the aisle is NOT a disgrace who are YOU to say that!
2006-10-16 16:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by nicoles1504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can give is my opinion, but here it is:
The way I see it, a man who "saves himself" does his future bride a disservice. You read it on here all the time, "I was my boyfriend's/husband's first, and he was clueless as to what to do... how do I help him figure it out?" Those poor girls who married these guys who, with all honorable intentions, have denied themselves the chance to learn how to please a woman in bed. So she quietly suffers as he tries to figure it out, getting all the more frustrated. Then he finally does figure it out, by which time she's already bored and every time they're together all the terrible experiences of the past fill her mind preventing her from ever really enjoying it ever again.
A woman who saves herself, on the other hand, doesn't ruin anything for the guy. He still has a brilliant time.
So, you have four possibilities:
1) Girl doesn't wait, guy does. The girl never has a satisfying sexual experience in her life ever again.
2) Girl and guy both have a past: girl has a 50/50 chance of anything better than what she's already had.
3) Girl and guy both wait: girl has a terrible sex life but never knows the difference.
4) Girl waits, guy doesn't: (if the guy learned along the way) girl marries a sex god who never leaves her disappointed, always leaves her fulfilled, and can't figure out what her girlfriends complain about sex for.
2006-10-16 16:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeah its society fault if we lived in 400 bc nobody would care. It would be more about survival then trying to get laid you know its only really like that in more first world countries try africa or the middle east there is way more going on so they dont tend to care about those things
2006-10-16 16:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I am a christian I think that they both should be pure on the night of there wedding, I find nothing wrong with it.
2006-10-16 16:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by nana_14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are insecure with themselves, and so if some guy they know is 18 and a virgin they will make fun of you because, well, that's just how guys are. they will call you a homo because they themselves are so terrified of others calling them gay.
guys are dumb. if you are a virgin, who cares....at least you don't have an STD like all the dumb F***s that call you gay.
2006-10-16 16:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by Krystal19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the same way with a guy sleeping around and being "cool" but then if a girl does it she is a whore!!! none of it makes sense just ignore other people nd try to go along with your life...besides no one else matters besides yourself and the ones you love.....fact
2006-10-16 16:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by The Phoenix Wears Armani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is something that should be commended!!! Men are too pressured by society to sleep with many women, he has morals and there is absolutly nothing wrong with that!!
2006-10-16 16:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by pink 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello have you been paying attention to what going on in the world. socity has painted this picture of guys haveing sex and arin't really men without it.
2006-10-16 16:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋