i don't get to spend too much time w/ my bf alone, so when the weekend comes up i'm really looking forward to it.... but if he is impatient or irritable for no reason, it really upsets me, to the point where i first get major attitude, and then i feel so sad that i cry!! why am i so easily upset?
sometimes i feel that he doesn't care if he ruins our good mood... is that something i should get upset about? or should i try to learn how to diffuse his irritation somehow? =T sigh...
2006-10-16 08:55:14 · 3 answers · asked by tarmee2006 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should talk to him about why he is so irritable. Find out out to make him less crabby, then you won't have a need to get upset.
2006-10-16 09:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough info here for a complete answer... what I'd want to know is what's making him irritable to begin with...is it work/school/ stress related somehow, or something else? Here are a few thoughts...are you, in your desire to be with him, somehow "hijacking" the weekend, changing plans, wanting to follow only your timetable and schedule rather than some compromise that works for both of you? Is he looking at you as being too clingy? Could there be someone else?
Try taking a totally positive approach...if you are in a bubbly upbeat mood it could make a difference...if he's still irritable, etc. instead of getting mad or hurt, ask him what's wrong and how you can help.
These are just a few ideas...hope they help somewhat. Good Luck
2006-10-16 16:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by answerman63 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to grow up
2006-10-16 16:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋