My parents always fight with each other, they just fight over stuff in the house, I mean my mum wants our house to be good and acceptable in order for us to get married and my dad just have some other plans ..he can't pay a lot for getting our house in good shape...and my mum is just angry and worried that we won't get married coz our house has some old furniture..they just can't understand each other and it's getting on my nerves..each one of them can't accept the other...what would u do if u were me ??
2006-10-16 08:53:39 · 9 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sit them down and tell them what their arguing is doing to you. Tell them how you feel. It's your marriage and if the furniture doesn't bother you, then that's all that matters. All that's important is how you feel about this, and right now, you're more concerned about them rather than what you're suppose to be focusing on.
Talk to them.
2006-10-16 09:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk with your brother/sisters if this is really problem for you to get married and all tell the parents your opinion - what is more important to be done or how can be solve the problem for you without fight any more.
2006-10-16 15:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Graciously and thankfully turn down their offer to use the home for your wedding. Get married in a park or a church. Or, elope.
2006-10-16 15:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by Working Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go ahead and get married and show them that the furniture is okay to get married.
2006-10-16 15:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i somebody is going to marry you , he won't care about your furniture
2006-10-16 15:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by layjc01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you are tired of the fighting. Explain to them that they don't have to stay together for your sake. If they are not happy together, they should consider going their separate ways.
2006-10-16 15:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
talk to ur mum reassure her ur house is okay & tell her how u r feeling, maybe they need marriage counseling, express ur concerns to them...
2006-10-16 15:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by Doni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out
2006-10-16 15:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by BECKER 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing let them be them it's who they are.
2006-10-16 15:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋