Ok... so i have been with this guy OFF and On for about 7 years. A few months ago (in our off period) I was talking to a friend of my cousins. I began to really like him and he told my cousin he was really into me. However he is very shy and I am not used to going up to guys. Me and the other guy got back into the On stage. I still see the other guy every weekend when i watch my cousins play softball. Now he ignores me completely or gives me a look and a smile. Lately i have been thinking about him and wondering what would have... Should i give him a call as he called last night???
2006-10-16 08:51:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ps. I am currently with the guy of 7 years but lately has become verbaly abusive and doesnt treat me the way he used to?
2006-10-16 08:53:38 · update #1
give him a call and talk.
2006-10-16 08:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think that you should drop the guy your with for 7 years. He has issues if its such an on off relationship, and now he's being abusive. I say why not tey a new person, maybe itll be alot better then with your current.
2006-10-16 15:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by fotum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you back with butthead. you should have gone with the nice on and told the other one sorry you where to late this time. Or you could do that now you could go up to him and say i am done. So goodby! then you call back good guy and go from their. All woman need to have a good man in their life enough when they don't think so. YOU'ER SEY WOMAN, YOU'ER A POWERFUL WOMAN, YOU'ER A SMART WOMAN, YOU'ER A BETTER WOMAN THAN WHAT YOU SEE, YOU CAN BE STRONG ENOUGH TO MAKE THE ABUSE STOP. THE ONE THING YOU NEED TO REMEMER IS YOU'RE ALL THESE THINGS AND YOU CAN AND SHOULD BE HAPPY AND SAFE.
2006-10-16 16:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by lostsoul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have grown used to the 7 years guy. Its not love, its just you both are used to each other.
Move on, before it gets even worse. Begin a new life.
2006-10-16 15:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't hurt to return the call, it's kind of rude if you don't. Just remember, try to be honest first with yourself, and then these two people. There's nothing worse than hurt feelings, and feeling guilty about a bad decision.
2006-10-16 15:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you have been off and on with with him maybe you should try to see how you would connect with the other guy. maybe he is the one. either way get out of the abusive relationship
2006-10-16 15:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by fatbrat64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should todally go 4 him he sound like a great guy that will not break your heart..4 the other guy you sould dump him he is sooooo not good 4 u, you deaserve better.i think that that you and friend would make a cute couple.
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-16 16:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by crazzykitty19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me and my culture to have cousin is like have sex with brother. Good luck and no comments.
2006-10-16 15:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would you call him if you are involved with the first guy again?
2006-10-16 15:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Kayt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋