I have been seeing this guy for a bit more than a month. The strange thing is that even dough, we like each other he is acting kind of weird. Since we started seeing each other he calls just 2 or 3 times a week and he almost never asks me out he has asked me out twice so I don´t get it. Is he trying to take it slow or is he just playing me around? He is really nice to me and he speaks to his friends about me so it confuses me I had never been witha guy who took things soooo slowly, and because i´m an old fashioned girl I want him to come after me not the other way around. What can i do Is he just playing or taking it slow?
2006-10-16 08:51:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can find out just exactly how interested he is in you by playing his own game. Stop being there to answer every time he calls. Let him know that you are "out" with friends. Be cordial but don't throw yourself at him.
If you want to encourage him to take you out, you might find something you really want to do and slip it into your conversation. "Hey, I heard So and So is going to be playing down at the improv on Saturday night. I think I am going to go. What are you doing Sat night?" If he likes you, he'll bite.
2006-10-16 08:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by ootxmusicgirloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has been hurt pretty bad in the past and hes just feeling this relationship out before he gets hurt again. Give it some time and see what happens but if he doesn't seem to come around talk to him heart to heart and see were he stand and so you will know too.
2006-10-16 15:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by fordsrock_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be telling him this. See what's up. There's no point sitting around on your computer all day expecting complete strangers to let you into his mind and thoughts. Only he can tell you why he's acting this way. Be upfront with him, and let him know that you're confused.
2006-10-16 15:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by Dubs82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be anything the only thing I would suggest is to talk to him and figure out where you guys are. Many things can be solved by just asking and talking.
2006-10-16 15:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a little bit of initiative. He could be shy. Just ask him out.
2006-10-16 15:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you are saying. but mabe he was hurt and dosent want to be hurt??? that is how i am i was hurt so bad in the last two relationships that a turtle will move faster than me in the relationship feild race
2006-10-16 15:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him "dude" whats going on....U like me? are we a couple?
Maybe he does not think you care for him?
Let him know you adore his calls....get to hear that great voice of his..
but man talk with him....we don't communicate enough with our partners.....
we cant' know things by osmosis.....
good luck...be well....
2006-10-16 15:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing you for a fool. you should demand some more quality time why are you wasting your time with this guy??
2006-10-16 15:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by rich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLAYER...move on
2006-10-16 15:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by Doni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is slow
2006-10-16 15:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋