why would a man ask you out act really into you and then always have his answer phone on HELP TO ALL NICE MEN?

Answer 1

I don't know if I can be called a nice man, but I'm certainly old, and perhaps wise enough to understand whats going on.

A man will ask you out primarily because he finds you physically attractive, he will make all the first moves, will be attentive, polite and considerate. Sometime during the date he will decide either "yes, this is a nice woman I want to see some more of her" or "how the hell could I have been so wrong , I want out of here".

I don't know why it should be, but younger (immature?) men don't seem to be geared up to say, thank you for your company and your time but this really isn't going to work. They will leave the "hook" in with the promise of more when none is intended. It's called the mating game, or evolution in action. Put it down to the failings of the male ego and move on. You will find eventually a man who is mature enough to be honest, and I hope you will both be very happy.

Answer 2

well it depends, if he is in the country and you let your penny drop then all you have to do is think of the old adage, really you should know men are only after one thing, if you liked your conversations should have kept it. Every time is like being a virgin all over again.!! Remember no clatter from the penny!!! Heres a word of advice if a man only thinks to talk to you for that particular reason then when you get back in contact with him only to find that he's out of the office forever just think to yourself, he ain't all that anyway, and your better of without him. Send em back t the 70's where they belong.

Answer 3

what are you saying make some sense don't use hysterical, un decypherable metaphors please. This is a good example of why some relationships don't work out. As you can see this women is attempting to be witty while asking a question. This ladies is not the correct way to present a question. I you were to get a flower would you want it dipped in paint first. us guys like questions like you ladies like flowers and money straight forward .

Answer 4

Nope i does no longer answer his telephone calls or be the single calling. a woman could in no way could fish for compliments or be the single calling it would be a 2 way highway. in the adventure that your bored with the video games now may be the time to stop. you will locate somebody else who'll pay greater interest to you and greater mature.

Answer 5

He more than likely is gay. Most men that have on thier answer phone are gay but havent accepted it yet, they turn on thier answer phone hoping it will help them figure it out.

Answer 6

Maybe he's shy and wants to have a chance to prepare himself before he chats to you. So he screens your calls, listens to your messages and thinks of something funny/sexy/interesting to say. Why don't you leave him a lighthearted, easy-going message asking him to go somewhere specific...ie "Hi..I'm going to xxxxx this evening, wandered if you wanted to come. If you're interested call back before 7pm..." That will give him a reason to be brave and call back!

Answer 7

sounds like he's married Hun. but what ever it is he don't sound worth it, even if he's not married whats he hiding or whys he hiding u ? don't waste Ur life on wasters, if u lay down like a mat people are going to wipe their feet. find someone better Hun or have fun trying :)

Answer 8

Chances are he has a life and he's living it. Why don't you wait until he rings you? Before you turn into a pathetic screaming stalker...

Otherwise, as they say on Sex & The City, he just isn't into you...

Answer 9

What ????????? Whats a answer phone ? Can you help us understand your question. Make it a little more clear.

Answer 10

Married I bet