I figure with 2 wives they should be able to satisfy me 100 % of the time instead of 50% right now. I know what you are thinking...I could just make my wife have sex with me. Well, maybe you could do that 50 years ago but todays times have changed, and that is illegal now in many states. Besides that isn't the kind of man I am anyway. Well, I haven't talked to my wife about the whole idea of a second wife, but frankly I don't care what she thinks. If she doesn't want to put out, the only option I see right now is to take another wife. And don't tell me to masturbate either - I'm not looking to waste my seed. I figure if King Solomon had something like 700 wives, a couple of wives is like a drop in the bucket - no big deal really. Is my plan ingenious or what?
2006-10-16 08:44:47 · 18 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What ever floats your boat! If that's what you want to do? How would you feel if your wife had two husbands? It seems to me that marriage just ain't what it used to be! Maybe because of guys like you! How could you not care what your wife would think? Why did you even get married? If you stayed single you wouldn't be asking this question and you could have something like 700 different women too, just like your buddy King Solomoron! Get a new life, er I mean wife! Set that poor woman free!
2006-10-16 08:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by justbecauseicare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not fair for her and you should consider her feelings to! Have you discussed this with her? You should. Maybe she has a medical problem that she needs to be seen for and that might be the trouble and then you and her can going on being together. What it really sounds like to me is that you do not have the feelings for her like you did when you first got married and maybe therapy is what you need. Don't hurt her like that it is not fair for either of you and you may just open up a can of worms that you don't want opened and may mess up the best thing that has ever happened to you. Think long and hard about it before you do something dumb and what you might regret later and then it will be too late.
2006-10-16 15:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by fordsrock_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But seriously though. You wife may not be having a sex drive problem as much as having an energy problem. Invest in some good vitamins. Coenzyme Q10 are great for energy. Also, help her with the chores around the house. That way she can save her physical energy for you. Hope that helps.
2006-10-16 15:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by Onjel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, the illegality of multiple wives doesn't bother you, but forcing your wife to have sex does??? rofl
in my opinion, your wife's lack of sex drive is due to your lack of skill in the bedroom, you may be better off asking your wife what you can do to improve her sexual experience (although, you should not be surprised if she suggests cutting your manhood off) as you appear to be selfish and uninspiring as a lover.
communication and actually trying to please your partner over yourself may just enhance your love life beyond your limited imagination. ... women as a rule have a much better sex drive than men if you take the time to make it pleasurable for them, they can wear you out and still be ready for more (hence the disparity in the numbers between male and female prostitutes)
get yourself a book and READ it.
2006-10-16 16:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jason, Jason, Jason. Two wives means two anniversaries to remember, two birthdays to remember, two Valentine's Day gifts. . .it's not an easy road to take, man! Just find a hooker.
2006-10-16 15:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by Casey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's not a good idea. If you love her, live with it...compromise. If you don't, get a divorce and sleep with whomever you want if sex means more than the marriage.
2006-10-16 19:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by sorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to Utah and join the Mormans.
2006-10-16 15:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not ingenious it is completely stupid... men werent meant to have multiple wives and maybe if you werent such an idiot she would have sex with you more often... our immaturity level would cause me not to want to have sex with you either!!
2006-10-16 15:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask wifey if you can play with other women...no strings..just sex...
I love my sex buddies...as I have a high sex drive...
then find someone you can just have for a sex partner and not ruin the marriage..
good luck with wifey accepting this...
ohh...and it's not a waste of sperm to masturbate..silly man...it's good for you to take care of yourself.....
I love to watch...
2006-10-16 15:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you're prepared to put up with 400% of the nagging (they amplify each other, you know).
2006-10-16 15:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋