Is this normal?

Question

I had a meeting with a three men that are potential clients. Well, it seemed to start of really well. The handshakes, pleasant hellos, liked the presentation packets, the video, all the marketing materials. Well, the video gets done and I turn off the projector to start my speech. They are all staring at my ***. Then when I start my presentation, they all stare at my breasts, and they're not even big. Well, is this normal?
Granted, I run a high end full service escort service. But, do they usually check out the manager during these meetings? I mean, I'm not the dominatrix, and that's what they seek. I am the BJ girl on the weekends, when I'm not trying to get new clients. Don't you think they would look at my mouth more?

I wasn't wearing anything revealing. Fitted black leather suit coat over a green high top fitted tee. I also don't do red lipstick. It makes them look too big. I get complements on them with the neutral tones I wear.

And BTW, the high end escort business is great. They use protection. They buy you drinks at fancy clubs. The regulars even buy you gifts. One of my clients even built an addition to his box for me. How sweet huh?

Answer 1

I ran out of answers on the other account, so I will be stepping in for TheOne. He tells me to tell you that although the mouth is the eventual receptacle, males by nature, are extremely visual creatures. And it is very important for them to see all your other bits in order to "prime the engine". So fear not. All things are right in the world.

Answer 2

I think they were trying to expand your hole....sorry, I mean expand your role in the business. They all know that you've got no problem with the oral side but they obviously could see potential in you in other ways. It's called diversification - every business needs to do it. There's also the possibility that you're lousy at BJs and they've heard people complining so they're thinking that maybe you need to find another expertise. Good luck with it.

Answer 3

umm the nature of your profession makes it acceptable for men to treat you like an escort.

I would say that if you don't want them looking at your chest or your rear get into a profession that would call for repect as of now you are a high priced escort and there is no respect for street booty

Answer 4

This is why I use blow up dolls. I think it is demeaning to women for me to stare at them. They never seem to get the meaning. They constantly tell me to quit undressing them with my eyes. However I am already having a mental cigarette at this point.

So I stick with my blow up dolls especially when someone puts velcro on them. However I poked a hole in my favorite one. I like to dress up as a chimp and make love to my Charles Darwin Brokeback edition doll.

Answer 5

You can't be serious?! Um, I would say it's inappropriate for any manager to be looked at THAT way - but when you're the BJ girl on the weekends, shouldn't you come to expect it?! Face it, guys want to look at the assets... chest, butt, legs, etc...

Answer 6

I've alway been fascinated about the escort business can you tell me more. And it's normal especially when you introduce sex into a conversation.

Answer 7

First off how old r ur potenital clients??? And yes it is normal for guys to do that. But just be happy with what ur momma gave ya.....and tell those guys not to look at u...if u were wearin some reviling clothes...COVER UP!!!

Answer 8

you are representing your business, if it is about providing a service then the people interested in your service are going to look at you like you actually provide the service they are looking for.

Answer 9

Guys are guys and I swear they will never change.If theres something to look at their gonna look its in their animalism if thats a word if not I think u get the picture.

Answer 10

Personally, paying for sex is disgusting and totally pathetic to me, so I can't really say what I'd do. Myself, I like to look into a person's eyes, all the answers are there, if we but look.