i am a teenager that has so many guy friends but dont see me as a gf. well i am not realy a girly girl i like to were blue jeans and have a t-shirt on ( tommy boy) well how do i get this guy to like me he asked me out my freshmen year and know i am a senior so what should i do plz help.
2006-10-16 08:34:20 · 17 answers · asked by Kayce 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be so sexist to assume that all guys act like the boyfriends that you decided to date, or act like the kind of guys you like to surround yourself with.
Some guys have a one track mind, and some girls have it too. Some guys are all about sex, and some girls are all about themselves and their looks. Not all people are that immature though.
Try hanging out with better guys.
Also, and sorry to say this, but us guys generally are attracted to femininity, not masculinity. I'm not sure how much of a tomboy you are or not. For all I know your very feminine. But if you naturally like being a boyish girl, your gonna have to find a guy who likes a bit of masculinity in their girls behavior. And loving someone for who they are is important, but natural attraction is also important. If looks didn't matter, then we'd all be bisexual and it wouldn't matter if a girl looked like Mr. T. But clearly we're all aren't. People shouldn't force themselves to be with those they don't naturally find attractive. You should be yourself and do whats natural So find a guy who's into your look and behavior.
2006-10-16 08:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are all about sex.
I am assuming your in high school, so yeah the majority of th boys in high school only want sex, they pretend to want a relationship but it's not always true.
The guys that are not all about sex are the ones that most feel are unattractive,dorky,or nerdy. Those are the guys who are actually going to value women and the time and effort it takes to make a relationship work.
Anyways, the guy liked you 4 years ago he probably no longer likes you in that way, but you can always ask if he wants to hang out. I don't understand why people are so afraid of actually communicating with someone else. Its not that hard and you don't need help. Just ask him, if your afraid he will turn you down then don't. Its up to you.
2006-10-16 08:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by E_E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always have to be careful about making broad generalizations and stereotypes. Not all guys are about sex, there are a lot of guys who love women for what they are and how they complement us not just for sex.
If you're interested in a guy just approach him and let him know. You may be surprised he may feel the same way, if not, move on there are plenty of other guys out there.
2006-10-16 08:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Marcus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys aren't about anything but sex because if they were that would be too much like right. Move on hopefully you are going to college so you all won't be around each other to much longer. And if you just want a temporary relationship than ask him out.
2006-10-16 08:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont know...guy can be soo stupid and immature sometimes. That's just something we have to deal with. Juts be urself, don't ever change for anybody whoever likes you will have to like you for you. It's better to be hated for who you are than to be loved but someone you're not!
2006-10-16 08:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're down and confused
And you don't remember who you're talkin' to
Concentration slip away
'Cause your baby is so far away
Well, there's a rose in a fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
And if you can't be with the one you love, honey
Love the one you're with
Love the one you're with
Love the one you're with
Love the one you're with
2006-10-16 08:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take it the wrong way but some guys fall in love with you by the sex. So it could have its advantages.
2006-10-16 08:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
not all guys are like that they all dont wwant sex from you. you should act more girly like dress more sexy then you will see some changes
2006-10-16 08:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two main things girls must learn about guys:
1. They're dirty.
2. All they want is sex.
Period.
2006-10-16 08:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by Oh! Gravity. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You see you are looking sexy, your look is provocation to want/have sex only. Who you really try to blame how you are showing yourself.
2006-10-16 08:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋