how do people cope when they have just moved out and got a mortgage and you become pregnant and have to leave work how would u manage???
2006-10-16 08:31:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
the best thing to do is try to think positive and come up with a game plan either by yourself or with your partner because im pregnant and in a month i'll being paying for an apatment in new york city (so expensive) and like 2-3 months after that ill be giving birth and unable to work, i understand how stressful it is. it might help if things are sorted out on a piece of paper, even though it might still be a lilttle nerve recking in your head
2006-10-16 08:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by StilettosGolour 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kind of thought the same thing when I got married and moved out. We manage. We both work full time. We are hoping to start a family soon. It will be planned, but it is hard to imagine if you will be able to do it or not. People make it work everyday. Its tough. Nobody ever said it would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.
2006-10-16 15:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by SavvyGrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a story for public assistance, which really isn't much to look forward to. It's best if you have someone like parents that you can count on to support you somehow.
Not sure what kind of job you have where you HAVE to quit because you are pregnant. There are laws that protect women while they are pregnant that say they cannot be forced to leave.
Is there a husband or significant other?
2006-10-16 15:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by stocks4allseasons 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
need more info, moved out of where? If you need to work and there is no spouse or you need a second income, you can try to work from home as avon or mary kay seller, pampered chef, online clothes store to sell kids items, or you can ask the state to help pay for some of your childcare for low income families. Check your state's information. I live in VA and My state helps pay for childcare, pregnant women, and healthcare for children up to age 18. If you can afford to stay home, why don't you take care of some of your friend's children. I would try to become a daycare worker so you can be there to take care of your baby as well as others and get paid for it.
2006-10-16 15:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many opportunities to work at home. Explore your options before you stop working on your current job, if possible. That will give you a little time to find another source of income before you stop the first one. Don't get discouraged, there's hope.
2006-10-16 15:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by edcw0214 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't freak out! Just take one day at time weigh your options make list of things that need to be done and create a budget. There is always help you just need to know where to find it.
2006-10-16 15:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by Babs B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move back in with your parents.
2006-10-16 16:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
budgeting, cutting back, getting creative reading the 'frugal zealot', running up debt, taking long walks, asking for museum and zoo memberships as presents, refinance, sell, get a renter, eat chocolate....
2006-10-16 15:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sorry to say but if you really need help see if welfare can help you untill you get on you feet...........good luck
2006-10-16 15:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by dogfaceboy626 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being pregnant i would go mad.
2006-10-16 15:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by god0fgod 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋