2006-10-16 08:31:00 · 31 answers · asked by john h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are u just casually dating her with no strings attached? if you're just seeing each other and still have freedom then no
2006-10-16 08:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by coochie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you keeping the fact that you're seeing the ex-gf from your current gf? If so, then that's not good no matter what your motives.
Second, ask yourself a very simple question: "Why am I still seeing my ex-girlfriend?". Is it because you (1) were better as friends anyway, and you enjoy her company from a completely platonic perspective (2) still have buried feelings for her, and you're secretly hoping to rekindle things with her at some point in the future (possibly using the current girl to create a triangle) or (3) just like having a "backup plan".
Unless you answered (1) and were completely honest with yourself, then its morally wrong (regardless of whether you label it "cheating" or not). If you honestly are seeing her solely for her friendship, then you need to make ABSOLUTELY certain that she isn't still harboring romantic aspirations herself. Otherwise, her intentions could "accidentally" sabotage your relationship with your girlfriend.
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2006-10-16 08:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sebastian Valmont 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask and it is on your conscious then you should think about not doing it. It is OK on a very small level. Just as long as you make sure of the boundaries. But how can you get over an ex if they are always there unless you have kids together. Give some space to that relationship. If you two can still see each other then you should have stayed together. How does your gf feel about that.
If you say she doesn't know. That is bad. Think about how you would feel if she was still around her ex. Would you ask yourself why is she there and not with me.
2006-10-16 08:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by t j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, Do not over text her. She will get annoyed and if you keep telling her "TAKE ME BACK I LOVE YOU." Learn here https://tr.im/t8rxg
She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.
She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.
2016-07-19 23:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what you guys are doing when your "seeing" her. If you guys are still fooling around and doing the things that you used to do then yeah your cheating. If everything is copacetic then your good. If I were you I would talk to the currnet gf and make sure that she understands so things don't get out of hand but then again she is a female so she probably won't understand anyway. Good luck
2006-10-16 08:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-26 02:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by alethea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what do you mean by "seeing?" like going to a restaurant casually with her or like a romantic sha-bang? well having your new girlfriend know your "seeing" ur ex wouldnt be the smartest thing in the world. she might get the wrong hint. see the ex a limited ammount of times to show your new gf your still committed to her. good luck
2006-10-16 08:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...does your new one know you see the ex? Does the ex know you have a new? Are you sleeping with both? Are you basically being open and honest about it? If you are, it's fine. If you're not, then you're being a bad boyfriend.
2006-10-16 08:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 06:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're dating both ..then yes it's cheating if they don't know about each other! If they know about each other and you're being honest..then have fun & good luck!! if you're hiding something from either one...that indicates that you are cheating..otherwise why would you lie or hide information??
2006-10-16 08:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You date more than one girl at a time but you can't have more than one girlfriend at a time. If you're in a relationship, you're cheating.
2006-10-16 08:33:56 · answer #11 · answered by Katherine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋