Ok guys, here's your chance to voice what really turns you off about your woman. I don't mean the obvious stuff like fat or f@rting, or even nagging. What are some other things that turns you off to your woman?
2006-10-16 08:24:52 · 14 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Head games. I know women think we play, but I swear every time I feel like I am in that cycle, it's been because I try to understand her, she flops her emotions around, I try to interpret what I am witnessing, and then react as best I know how so she accuses me of playing games and plays more. If she's disappointed, mad, wahtever, I wish she'd just say, Hey buddy listen here. Alright, let's deal with this and move on.
2006-10-16 08:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are a few things... I'm single and doing the dating thing... so I've had some really interesting experiences, too many to list here... but I'll list a few turnoffs/pet peeves: For starters- I'm a great listener, but that doesn't mean that I want to blow $100+ on dinner/drinks just to listen for 3 hours about what a jerk your ex husband or last boyfriend was. Also, if you're supposedly interested in me and we go out together, I kinda expect you to be interested in actually talking to ME, not blabbing with your friends on your cell phone every 5 minutes about nothing, or striking up conversations with everyone else in the place BUT me. And my idea of a fun date isn't watching you get drunk to the point of making an a$$ of yourself and/or barfing in my car or on my floor later...I'm all for having a good time but if you can't do it without getting totally hammered then we won't go far.
Other turnoffs...women who whine constantly that "guys never call", but can't return a phone call themselves when we do call...and women who feel the need to tell me, unsolicited, every detail of their last pap smear or monthly visit from Aunt Flow. Some might look at that as their being really comfortable with talking to me, but frankly that's something I can live without knowing about.
Plus what Mister O said about the constant "MEMEMEMEMEME" stuff. We tell you that you look great, then the answer is "Oh you're just saying that because you want some", etc.
Will that do for a start?
2006-10-16 08:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by answerman63 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the biggest turnoff for me results from difficulties in communication. Things have to be open and if you can't bring up a problem without being shut down then it is a real turn off.
2006-10-16 08:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her need for control of every f*cking nickel in the house. I earn 80% of the household income and have 0% say in how it's spent. I can't even go kickboxing for $80 a month.
We're not speaking anymore.
2006-10-16 08:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being late,talking to much about herself.BEING A ICE QUEEN is the worst turn-off for me. You f*cked while dating then when I say I DO ya turn to ice.
2006-10-16 08:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfaithfulness/Player
Stupidity
No common sense
Poor ethics
Poor morals
Poor judgement
Vanity
Gold digging
Dishonesty
Blame game
Unnecessary hostility
Being impolite
Those are the biggies if I haven't missed any.
2006-10-16 08:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they can't shut up for two minutes during the hockey game! Grrr!
2006-10-16 08:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by daffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has been asked before.
Repeating the #1 turn off: Women with a severe self esteem issue that needs constant verbal reminders of your love. "Do you love me? Why do you love me? What are you goig to do to show me that you love me? Mee meme me me me?
*rips out hair*
2006-10-16 08:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Smoking, Is a big turn off.
No longer showing affection.
She not carring about herself anymore. cleaness.
2006-10-16 08:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by parkagent 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lack of communication, lack of trust, non-compromising, jealousy, but that goes both ways for men and women. for me personally i don't like it when a woman I'm dating has a "conspiracy mentality". what i mean is that she thinks that everyone is talking mess about her when no one is. also i don't like it when she has that "it's all about me" stuck up personality.
2006-10-16 08:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋