Girls ... i need to understand you ...?

Question

Ok . my ex and i broke up mutually like 3 months ago, we just needed time apart. There was never a fight or hard feelings, obviously i miss her a lot, even now. Well she has been seein another guy for about a month, and all they do is fight. Constantly. My ex and i went over a month without talking, and then she texted/called me out of the blue. And her friend, who is one of my good friends has told me that my ex talks about me every day, says she misses everything about me, and that no one understands her the way i do. Well this mutual friend is telling me it is just of matter of time before we come back together. But im still concerned because she is with this other guy still. I know their relationship isnt good, she has actually said she wanted to break up, but i dont understand why if she misses me and talks about me so much, that she is still with him. Is there a process, and i just need to wait it out, or does this seem a little fishy to you too? I love her, i think she loves me

Answer 1

She loves you,she can´t get over you,and she will come back to you and leave the other one as soon as you show her that you want her back.
Why don´t you surprize her...send her flowers,and write a note with something like "I stil love and miss you,every single second...I am not happy,and you aren´t either...let´s meet,and start it all over again" Don´t be shy telling what you feel,because girls like men that can say out loud what feelings they´ve got...trust me,you can´t fail.
She probably is affraid that you don´t want her back...yes it is a matter of time till you get back together,but why wait,and suffer in silence,while you can be right now with the one you love.
Good Luck.

Answer 2

Has your mutual friend made her aware that you're still into her? She may not know. A bird in the hand being worth two in the bush, she may just be playing safe. Lots of people stay in bad relationships just so they don't have to deal with being alone. It's also true that when things turn sour in a current relationship, many people start conjuring up images of their exes and somehow only remember the good things about them. The reasons for the break-up are far from their minds (and that is often the reason why many of these kinds of reunions fail). You definitely need to wait this one out. She needs to get out of the relationship she's in before she moves on to you. And should you two decide to try again with each other, you both need to have a serious talk about why you broke up in the first place and what's going to make it better this next time around.

Answer 3

Some girls like the thrill of breaking and making up, some are frightened to let go of what they have. In this case it may be she misses everything about you but you're not physically what she wants. It's like she's with him to make up what you lack and talks to you because of what he lacks. I would question her as to what it is what she really wants. Be honest about your feelings and if she doesn't know how to respond or make a choice obviously her feelings are not mutual. Good luck!

Answer 4

Ok, here's whats up. She doesn't know if you'll get back together with her if she dumps this guy. So, she's kinda staying with him because he's comforting her on some level and preventing her from being alone.
If I were you, I would pull her aside and simply say "I love you and I'm here waiting to see if you still love me. If you don't, I'll walk away now and forget you. If you do, let's go back to that good place where we are both happy." and that's it.

Answer 5

If she wanted to be with you, she would break it off with the other guy already.

Why did you break up? Why did you need time apart? Have you really changed? Just because two people love each other does not mean they can have a scucessful relationship. Sorry.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

You should not put to much emotional emphasis on what your mutual friend is telling you, he/sh may not know everything that is going on or he/she may just be telling you what you want to hear,

If you still love your ex, wait, don't get involved in her business and see if she comes back, all within reason don't wait too long though. Make yourself available to dating others, you don't want to waste your time.

Simple enough? not! unless you just move on.

Answer 8

How long have you been together with her? Well ex do appear in our mind or heart. Is she the right 1 for U? If you can forsee her walking the future then go ahead if not go on as there will be a "perfect" 1 for u.

Answer 9

She obviously doesn't like the relationship she is in now and is having second thoughts about breaking up with you. Let her know that you want her back more than anything. If she gets back with you, I doubt she'll see the other guy at all.

Answer 10

How eerie. I just got out of a similiar situation. My girlfriend was seeing another guy. But eventually she sent me a huge *** email basically saying she is stupid and she wanted me back. She broke up with her boyfriend and we are together now. But I love her a lot. If she hadn't sent me that email i would have wrote her a letter or something similiar. If she doesn't do something soon, then you need to.