Me and by b/f have been together for a little while and on are homecoming nite which was a week ago he cheated on me and i just found out they both told me it was just a peck so i forgave him but now it turns out that the made out and i really haven't talk to him since. He keeps telling me please don't brake up with me and saying he really likes me should i trust him and give him and give him a 2nd chance? I really like him and i have for 2 years before we started to go out
2006-10-16 08:22:41 · 18 answers · asked by Michele 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No 2nd chances! Unless your into 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th, or 7th chances.
2006-10-16 08:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally. I wouldn't trust him. If you feel that he is sincere and you are willing to give it a chance then go for it.
My concern is that he made out with someone at a party where you were at.. If he has that little of control over himself can you imagine what he would do if you were out of town for a week or two.
I have a feeling he just isn't mature enough to have a girl friend.
If you do take him back and he cheats again....don't let it happen ever again...his chances are over and NO matter how much you think you love him...you deserve better. Most of us have people we love but we can't be with. You deserve more.
2006-10-16 15:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You're just going to set yourself up for a heartbreak! He's a cheater! They made out! That means he's not serious about you and he doesn't like you! He like the idea of getting in your pants! These are bad signs from the beginning! It's a big fat RED FLAG!
He'll make your life a living hell!
Go find someone else that you might have had your eye on other than him. Surely you've had your options open?
2006-10-16 15:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no why would you forgive him? that is just telling him that what he did is ok, besides, he lied to you and said it was just a peck and then later on you found out that they were making out, what do you think you might find out tomorrow that there was even more to it than that? to hell with that, move on and find someone else who is going to treat you better and not cheat on you, find out quite well what kind of person a guy is before you go out with them, anyways, ditch the guy, he is not worth your time and you will be a lot happier in the long run, once a cheater always a cheater
2006-10-16 15:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would u be with a loser that disrepected u? He crapped on you and doesn't care abt u. He only cares abt the next girl he is trying to score with. Wake up now. He is a loser so treat him like it. He says all sorts of things NOW that he got caught. What if he hadn't? U think he was gonna tell u?
Drop the loser move on to someone that can respect and really love you
2006-10-16 15:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kelli T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you like to be treated like $hit then stay with him... Now Answer this If he does not respect himself how the %uck he is going to respect you? But I like him for 2 years you say and look how he treats you. OOOHH But I can making him change? You can't change no one unless they want too... Sure go ahead give him another chances... You are going to do it any way... just don't come to this forum and expect people to feel sorry for you...EFIL
2006-10-16 15:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gets away with is once, he will push his luck and then you have been hurt again. You don't want someone like that surely. You will never trust him again. You will find your self constantly questioning every move he makes out of your sight. It's just not worth it. Move on to someone better.
2006-10-16 15:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by bamagrits84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT stay with this guy! Have some self-respect!! If you let him get away with it once, you are only asking for it again! And trust me, he will do it again. There will be other guys who will treat you right! Don't settle for a loser!!
2006-10-16 15:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go, you're always going to be suspcious of him, therefore the trust is gone out of the raltionship. that means pretty much the relationship is dead. dump him, once a cheater always a cheater. save yourself the heartache
2006-10-16 15:30:53 · answer #9 · answered by gigi_the_girl_anachronism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really liked you he wouldn't have made out with another girl. If you stay with him you are sending him a message that he can do it again and you'll stay with him.
2006-10-16 15:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋