Booked prior to us Getting together - swears blind it is an amicable thing! But, slipped up and called me her name once...what do you think?
Trust or not - lovers or not?
What should i ask him?
2006-10-16 08:09:26 · 34 answers · asked by Pepper 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't matter when this was planned, if he is serious about you, he would not go through with it. Plans can be changed, and if it is only a platonic relationship, then the other woman would understand if he changed them, because of a newly developed relationship. He is definately not playing straight, and I would bail now.
2006-10-16 08:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by ootxmusicgirloo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bloody hell, tricky one. I have to be honest, I would not be happy with this one little bit. It depends though on what the intentions were when it was first planned. I think I would have problems trusting. I dont know your whole sitch, but sometimes I just know that the girl but having something in mins not necerssarily the guy. I would just come straight out and ask whatever your concerns are. If he really likes you then he would give you your answers. Good luck x
2006-10-16 08:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by Carole T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! If I had planned a vacation with someon of the opposite sex and then started dating someone, I would cancel the vacation. He has no right putting you in that situation, also if he slipped up and called you her name, thats not a good sign. Tell him that he needs to respect your feelings more, if he just can't do that, then leave him.
2006-10-16 08:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience, this guy will swear blind he loves you and then do her behind your back and she will say it was just a platonic break. They will have had a "what happens on the break, stays on the break" thing going on. They won't have meant for it to happen, but they'll go out, have a few drinks and before you know it --- oops, thought this was my room.....
2006-10-16 08:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if it was planned prior. You are with him now and he shouldn't want to do anything with another woman. Then calling you her name. Hell no that was a mistake. Don't trust the whole just friends thing.
2006-10-16 08:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by snuffaluffagus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had planned a platonic trip with a male friend before you met him, and your guy was too uncomfortable with you going, what would you do?
And, if he calls you her name once, let it go. If he does it twice, punch him in the mouth. He'll never do it again. OR, call him a guys name, see how he likes it.
2006-10-16 08:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? Yes, you should be worried. How many men do you know would waste a weekend with someone they are not having sex with? Don't be blind. Something is going on here.
2006-10-16 08:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To even ask the question here you are more trusting than 99% of the people..And suggesting something is ok that no one in the world would allow their partner to do is amazing
2006-10-16 08:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That does not sound too good... There are alot of flags raised over here... Be cautious. He called you her name once? It means she running through his mind. Also the fact that the trip was planned before you two got together?? That means he had "single bachelor" intentions with her. Not good sweety.
2006-10-16 08:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jenna S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, I would be worried about this... Although they may not be lovers, a weekend away could change things! What are the sleeping arrangements?
2006-10-16 08:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by anchan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋