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his ex girlfriend popped up on his my space page, and she is sending him all kinds of sexy messages on his web page. He hasnt told her about me, and she is coming up here to see him. Weve been dating for 3 months, and we havent had the "what are we talk" yet. I asked him whats going on here, and told him that i was falling head over heals for him, and he said he dosent want to hurt anyone, he needs some time to figure things out. Whats Going on with him? We havent been seeing other people, until she contacted him.

2006-10-16 08:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by Rebecca H 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

8 answers

You just had your "what are we talk" the first thing he should have done is tell her about you. he didn't because she is more important to him. The exact same thing happened to me. I stupidly went along with it. She NEVER told him about me. Dump the snake now. You have good reason to.

2006-10-16 08:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Obviously he still has feelings for his ex, and you. Maybe he broke up with her, but regrets it. Sometimes it takes some time to completely get over someone.

IF you are really into this guy, tell him that you are not going to waite around for him to figure out which girl he wants. You are there if he wants you, but you are not going to waite for the bredcrums. If he thinks you will always be there to fall back on he will use that as much as he can. If he has to make a decision, he will either choose you or her, and if it is not you, then it is probably better you got out now and moved onto someone that is more about you.

2006-10-16 15:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0 0

well the same thing happened with me n my girl, i would have to say that he still has feelings 4 her just give him his space to think but watch him closely

2006-10-16 15:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by JZ103 2 · 0 0

He says he doesn't want to hurt you. That should tell you that he's not wanting a serious relationship. If you want to be his "other" girl, keep seeing him. If you want someone who will be devoted to you, quit seeing him.

2006-10-16 15:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Dasher 2 · 0 0

He still has feelings for her....Sorry I know it hurts and it's not what you wanted to hear but it's true!

If he didn't he would have told her about you!

2006-10-16 15:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 6 · 0 0

If he isnt telling her about you, he is still interested in her
Shes coming to visit him?? and your ok with this,
Move on or get comfortable with sharing

2006-10-16 15:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by sharing 2 · 0 0

sounds like he might still like his ex since he hasn't told her about you, try moving on

2006-10-16 15:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by S 5 · 0 0

laeve him bcuz he want her bak and dats all to it let them have each other and you do you

2006-10-16 15:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by jaszy 1 · 0 0

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