should i stop talking to him
2006-10-16 07:49:50 · 14 answers · asked by ♥m+a♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Theres obviously some insecurity and mistrust here. You should observe your situation in a few different ways. First, would it bother you at all if the situation was the other way around? Are there any feelings still there between either of you two? Why does your boyfriend not trust your friendship? If it would bother you if it was the other way around then you need to be fair in this situation, if there are any feelings left between you and your ex then you should either leave it alone or get back with him, and if your boyfriend has no reason not to trust you and just doesnt then you probably shouldnt be with him because theres nothing that can make a relationship go through more hell than accusations and assumptions made by someone you love just because they have trust issues.
2006-10-16 07:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by tx_blonde_27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should stop talking to your friend all together but to just be careful if you really care about your boyfriends feelings. Try to help him understand that he's just a friend.
After all, there are people who are married and divorced who communicate for the sake of their children even when they remarry. Some even stay friends whether they have children or not.
Maybe double dating wouldn't be a bad idea so that your boyfriend will get a better understanding and may even make friends with him too. It's worth a shot.
2006-10-16 19:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically the new boyfriend is insecure. I know you probably told him many times that there is nothing to worry about. Since I have been in the situation many times I tell the new boyfriend why I broke up with the ex boyfriend and why we are so much better as friends and hopefully that should ease some doubt.
Good luck.
2006-10-16 15:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by avid_rafter765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course jealousy is going to be an issue for your new current boyfriend since you dated your best friend long ago. The new boyfriend should just accept your friendship with your best friend and be mature about it, instead of telling you to stop cummunicating with him. It's really up to you to do whatever you decide, but always remember that boyfriends will always come and go, but friends stay forever.
2006-10-16 14:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, ex's are ex's for a reason and when you break up, you should move on. Your boyfriend sees it as a threat when he sees the two of you getting along. I mean, come on! What are you doing calling your ex your best friend anyway? He's an ex boyfriend! Who would wanna date someone clinging to old baggage? If you really think about it, it really is inappropriate.
2006-10-16 15:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should stop talking to your ex. Respect your boyfriend. If you can't handle that, maybe you're boyfriend should find himself a higher class chic.
2006-10-17 17:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by hotty_lovett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should stop. Admit it, every now and then the comversation is about sex. You did have sex with him...right? Well how would you like it if your man talked to his old girlfriend? You know its a bad idea. Show your new man some respect and drop the old one.
2006-10-16 14:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Brother Mike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should stop talking to your boyfriend asap!!
2006-10-16 14:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by SittinPretty! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness, it's not like you're cheating by having a friend. Why not explain this to your BF? He ought to understand.
2006-10-16 14:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your boyfriend! Isolating you from your friends and family is one of the first steps to abuse and violence.
2006-10-16 14:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by Mone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋