Can you be in a committed relationship with yourself ? I was thinking about it and I am smart, cute, funny and I can't use the word or it will get deleted but I play by myself so I know I am good in bed, shouldn't I just stick with myself?
2006-10-16 07:46:41 · 27 answers · asked by candidworker 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats what I am talking about Victim of love who knows me better than me !
2006-10-16 07:54:47 · update #1
Oh I still plan on having sex with men just not a relationship so yes Hugh I'll be expecting you on Thursdays still thanx and shynomore thats not a worry I'l still except all the gifts they wanna give me and maybe I'll pay for their cab ride home.
2006-10-16 08:07:28 · update #2
Candid
i have spent two years searching for the answer to this question, no kidding, i really hope so! i seem locked out to have it - and i am close to giving up! If you make any head way please let me know! I always wonder WHY THE F should we swoon so dramatically for another f'ing stranger just coz they have nice hair or irresistable kissable lips and throw a smile or two our way or have a way with words or humour, even for a short time but rarely do forourselves....for our very own persons!! A big WTF!!!!
I would say play both fields at once - toy with others and toy with Candidworker! Lets all be relationship s l u t s in that way!
2006-10-16 08:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , Its called Erotophobia- Fear of sexual love.
At least try it once.. and make that once with someone that knows something about it. .. If your frist experince is bad. There may not be another one.
Just remember .. If you find yourself Smart, Cute, funny. and don't like to be around people. Well .. You could alway start a Cam site. " like many other Smart, Cute, Funny, people "
2006-10-16 08:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by parkagent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also very good with myself, but no matter how good you are, you need to have another person around for it to be truly thrilling.
For me, the biggest turn-on is the reaction of the other person. You can't get that out of just yourself.
Plus, oral is damned near impossible with just yourself (esp. since you are a girl). Wouldn't playing with yourself be even more exiting if your mouth was full?
2006-10-16 07:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, the only flaw I see in your plan is the fact that you have to buy yourself presents. Personally, I like when I get something that I didn't expect just because he wanted to say he cares. Otherwise, I think it might work....just be careful about cheating on yourself....lol.
2006-10-16 08:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by shynomore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can please yourself then go for it. Chances are if you're thinking about it you're alot like me. Just like me, you're entirely too awesome to find someone worthy of being yours. If that's the case, then by all means stick with yourself. You'll always know what you're thinking and you'll never have to worry about being cheated on. Pretty good situation if you ask me.
2006-10-16 07:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll have to agree with you, until something better comes along. Good luck to you. Seem like all the good guys are gone and it is very difficult for some to meet those good ones.
2006-10-16 07:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's stupid. Why play with yourself when you can have someone do it for you? Sex is so fun. But making love is the best thing in the world!
2006-10-16 07:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can have the best realingship with youself,be happy and live a long life with yourself if you wish to give up little things like childern running under foot,someone to say goodnight to,the feel of a warm carring carress when your blue.and when it is all said and done your going to find yourself waking up one day alone and old.
2006-10-16 07:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by doren b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with playing by yourself. I can see now that your selfish and don't like to share. One is the lonelyest number but two can share an experiance of pleasure, laughs, spasm's and orgasm's .
2006-10-16 07:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are smart, funny, and cute? do you actually enjoy yourself:):)_.
I fyou have never tried the real deal than you are going to shoot your toy boy:)).
It's not natural to not experience love, and sex with soemelse.
YOu need ot experience real sex as well as love so get with the program.
2006-10-16 07:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋