I am with a wonderful man that I care for greatly, but I still notice other men. Does this mean that we are not meant to be and I should move on or is it alright to notice others?
2006-10-16 07:46:33 · 6 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's perfectly normal to notice other men, it could be that you were head over heels in love with your ex and your not at that stage with your current partner.
2006-10-16 07:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you i'm the exact same way. When I am truly in love with someone no one can get my eye no matter how good they looked. That has only happened twice in my life, once with my ex husband for 8 years and now with the man I'm with. Are you sure your truly in love with him?
2006-10-16 08:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by tx_blonde_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are comparing the two scenarios unfairly. (marriage status versus relationship status). Marriage definitely is a lot deeper. plus, you probably was with you ex-husband a lot longer meaning more feeling more attachment. you were married and only being with one person for so long will do that to you. its cool to look and notice other people its not a sin, as long as you do respect your relationship. ***other women do it all the time.
2006-10-16 08:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by rich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means your human.
I am happily married but when someone is attractive they are attractive. You cannot turn off your responses to stimuli. If you think about acting on your response then I would consider it a warning sign.
2006-10-16 07:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean a damn thing out of the ordinary to me.
2006-10-16 07:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cool
2006-10-16 07:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋