my boyfriend had to move to texas with his parents. we have such a great relationship. the thing about it is that he wont be 18 until the 30th of november. my boyfriend had told my bestfriend and me that he was going to return after his birthday but heres the thing! his parents are real strict with him and its been three days since ive talked to him. his parents texted my phone and told me not to be bothering him or to not look for him! the day before my boyfriend left he went to my friends house and had told him that his parents took away his cel phone,and they would not let him use his truck he told my friend to give me a message he said" tell my chiquita that ill call her as soon as i can and than he told him that he would call when he got to texas. its been a couple of days since i talked to my boyfriend and i dont know what to think.
2006-10-16 07:31:21 · 7 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find another guy. There are so many other guys out there and if this problem is going to complicate things, it's not worth your time.
2006-10-16 07:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're in a tough spot. It's always difficult to not know what's going on. Two months is actually not very long for a long distance relationship. There are some people that last years in a L.D.R. Just be patient and wait for his call. If he's really your boyfriend, he'll find a way to contact you.
2006-10-16 14:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by Psylence 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are his parents so against you?
yes, the long distance thing can work, but it won't be easy due to his parents & what makes you so sure he
will come back to where you live once he's 18 ? It might be hard for him to leave his family, your young , for now
just take it one day @ a time & see what happens,
whatever is ment to be will be & if it's not then time to move on.
2006-10-16 14:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found most long distance relationships are not worth it. You're dealing with the pains and agony of it first hand now. You should do a positives and negatives column chart and maybe you'll be able to objectively view your situation. If you still think its best to be in the "relationship" then you'll just have to wait it out.
2006-10-16 14:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience is a virtue. You must not get anxious let things be for a little while If it is going to happen it will
2006-10-16 14:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard question. I've had 3 long distant relationships and all 3 didnt work out maybe this one is different. Thats wat i always tell myself. But they all turn out the same. (in hurt and tears)thats how they turn out.
2006-10-16 14:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by badassgirl-1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*omg..yes, it can deffinatley work...yeah, its going to be ruff, and its going to be hard, but you BOTH have to trust eachother to be faithful, and his parents can just get over whatever their deal is. my friends parents wont let her see her boyfriend, but i help sneak her around to see him. it will work, i will pray for ya'll...i really hope this works out...i like his nick name 4 you..
2006-10-16 14:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by ..::Sierra::.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋