I would think it would have to do with the lie itself. Was it a lie that might make other people question your integrity with things you do with the Church? Or was it something to do with honesty with finances? If it was something that could harm you in the future you need to take care of it by bringing other people into the problem but, if it was just a gossip type of thing, I would let it go and forgive him but, be careful around him in the future.
2006-10-16 08:08:02
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answered by Midge 7
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it is a shame a mimister would do something so terrible i would not only confront him i would confront him and try to reach some kind of answer. if it does not work, go to the church and let them know that what has been said about you is untrue and you would like to put it at rest once and for all. also tell them if you have hurt anyone's feeling 's you are very sorry and ask them forgiveness GOD will surely deal with him if you do this!
2006-10-16 07:25:01
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answered by mishoney 4
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One who slanders another has a moral obligation to repair the damage done as much as possible. But the fact of your pastor having done this in the first place, as well as his juvenile comments about it after the fact, suggest that he is far too immature to take responsibility for his actions. It also suggests that he is far too immature to be a pastor. If that is so, all you can do is forgive him, so that his sin doesn't become your sin, and get on with life. Depending on the circumstances and the specific people he told, you may or may not be able to tell them the truth yourself.
2006-10-16 07:28:54
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answered by PaulCyp 7
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As it say in Mathew to go to him first, then if you do not get a good result go with someone else, preferably someone over him. All pastors must be under some kind of authority. If not they go unchecked and can do harm. Assuming he is under authority where he has to give an account go to one of them with your problem. Then you both can meet with the pastor. He he is not accountable to anyone then you may not want to stay under his ministry. As far as people believing his lies, you need to tell your friends the truth and id they are truly your friends they will support you. Ultimately, surrender all your dealings to the Lord. Remember he allowed you to be in this situation and he has a plan for you. Keep asking for his help and guidance. Be careful to forgive by giving your hurts to God. You are in very good company regarding being lied about. Jesus will help you.
God bless,
Steve
2006-10-16 07:27:22
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answered by handsomeworshipper 4
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We are dealing with the same sort of issue here. We have a preacher that is doing the exact same thing, going around spreading lies about folks. But I can tell you, I feel as though it is all about to come to a head because so many in our community are getting tired of his ungodly behavior and they are on the verge of confronting him and bringing all of his deception to light.
I say confront him. Be very prepared though, have proof and witnesses and pray about it before you jump in to anything.
2006-10-16 07:27:10
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answered by HazelEyes 5
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If you want todo the Christian thing, forgive him and don't punish him in any way, but you can also let everyone know that the story they heard about you was not true. If they ask why the pastor said it, you can say he got it wrong or he didn't mean it or that he heard it from someone else who lied, or simply tell the truth, that he made it up but he regretted it.
2006-10-16 07:21:33
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answered by cpinatsi 7
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Interesting Story. Your friend who did this to you is a pastor?? Some man of God he is. And, what part of "Turn the other cheek" doesnt fit in with the way youre feeling today??
Simply amazing. While the story of your pastor doesnt surprise me, the fact that youre asking what to do does amaze me. Your God is CLEAR in his Teachings of how to handle this. Yet, you cannot follow his example??
This is what makes you people hypocrites.
2006-10-16 07:24:15
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answered by YDoncha_Blowme 6
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I think that this week you should talk to the pastor in private and tell him how you feel. If he still doesn't get it, then at next weeks meeting bring it up to your support group meeting.
2006-10-16 07:21:43
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answered by Rosey55 D 5
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if this is a support group for addictions, a 12 step group so to speak bring the matter up but do not name the person you are talking about and let the group have a discussion about it or tell you what they would do.
2006-10-16 07:20:41
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answered by SKYDOGSLIM 6
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Turn the other cheek. It's up to them to correct their error.
If you are up for a challenge, how about pray for all the good things you want, for your friend. Do this for thirty days and you'll probably get beyond your current anger.
Allow this friend the opportunity to make amends for their actions.
2006-10-16 07:21:58
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answered by Anonymous
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