i've had bf's and etc. but i realized lately that i always check out the ladies when i go to a place, and first think which ones look better in which ways (never comparing with myself). last night out i caught myself staring at a ladies legs 4 example. but i totally freaked out when i was seduced bt watchin two ladies kiss. am i a lesbian? what should i do?? please help
2006-10-16 07:10:49 · 14 answers · asked by melinda c. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeh it sounds like your a carpet muncher!
2006-10-16 07:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by oldjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are ONLY a lesbian when you have decided that you sexually prefer women ONLY. Now.. if you have never slept with a woman before (or a man) you really can't make that determination.
If you want to explore.. explore... do a few of each (one at a time mind you).. and see what you prefer.
It could be just a fantasy that is getting the best of you.. or it could be an indication that you enjoy women more.. or you just want a change of pace...
find out.. explore it.. explore yourself... learn...
2006-10-16 07:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the thought of being a lesbian upsets you then you are probably NOT a LESBIAN. Even though you don't want to admit to it. I think you are just checking out the competition. It's a natural female tendency.
2006-10-16 07:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband and I go out, I look at other girls too, just to see the pretty ones and the ugly ones, my husband and I laugh at this, just because you look at other girls and might have ceratian thoughts doesn't mean your a lesbian, just simply means that you like the way they look. IF you haven't crossed the line (having sex with another girl) only you can say if you are gay or not. I love to watch two girls go at it, does this mean im gay no.
2006-10-16 07:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by msoutherngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a Lesbian, (well, you might be but that's OK)
Everyone gets turned on when 2 chicks kiss. It's hot.
They say that 95% of women would be interested is spending time with another woman.
I think it's great.
Two guys? Hell No! That's disgusting !
2006-10-16 07:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
o please get a grip here...you like to look a some girls legs and bang your a lesbian...sheesh I'm worried are you looking at my car...nice wheels nice color.does this make you autobian..it depends on whether you like being with men or not...its really all about getting off right, so enjoy your life where ever it should take you.
2006-10-16 07:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by dave m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are just comparing other females to you? ever thought of that? it may not be a lesbian thang after all
2006-10-16 07:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by pitbulldawgz82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first thing, dont freak! I believe everyone has a little gay in them. It could just be your curiousity trying to explore the grounds of your outter mind. It's called temptation or bi-curious. I believe everyone goes through it at one point and time in their life. ESPECIALLY FEMALES!
2006-10-16 07:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by bevey_jane263 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Stick with the guys. Don't even go there.
2006-10-16 07:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by tractor girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao.....just because you appreciate they way women look does not make you a lesbian. however what would be wqrong with that anyways
2006-10-16 07:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go see a professional
2006-10-16 07:13:22 · answer #11 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋