My ex g/f is hanging out with a new guy, for about a month. All they do is fight, and all i hear about is how much she misses me, and knows that im great for her .... but she is still with him. We just recently started talking again after about 2 months without. As i have been told things that she says .... she misses me .... im the only one that understands her ... im the only person she trusts .... she wont have sex or anything with this guy because she would think of me ..... she talks about me every single day to her friends, i always come up ...... Ok does this mean she still cares about me a lot and we will get back together? And what does it mean if shes still with him? even though break up process has been going on for a couple weeks. I know she loves me, our breakup was calm and nothing bad has ever been said. We just parted ways. Am i crazy for believing that we will get back together. Everyone is tellin me that we will, im just not convinced yet!
2006-10-16 06:55:53 · 9 answers · asked by whatitdo52253 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No youre not crazy, you will get back together, she is just using him to coverup because she doesnt want to let on that she is missing you, she wants to make it look like she is not hurtin, but believe me she is and she will come running back to you soon, just be ready with open arms.
2006-10-16 07:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Dustin Schneider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask her how she really feels and if you feel them same then it was meant to be. However if you do not feel that way or she doesn't feel that way then let it go. However if she does all that stuff then obvisously she still has feelings for you. I did that with my husband when we were younger. We broke up for wo years and I had a child with him. After two years we decided that we were meant for each other and have been together ever since. So just ask her if she wants to be with you instead of this other guy she doesn't even get along with.
Good Luck!!
2006-10-16 14:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by allison32401 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will get back together with her.... until she finds someone else and dumps you again. so sorry-but its true.
let me clue you in on a few secrets about us girls....
first... shes probally lying about not sleeping with him-we do that
second..she knows a break-up is coming and you are going to be her door mat to wipe her feet on....she knows you are sweet and will take her back....until she finds someone else she might as well hang with you-we do that
third...think hard about this-if her feeling were genuine and she really cared about you.... you werent just a back-up..... why would she still be with that guy instead of you? she is where she wants to be-
and finally....when we are treated badly by the boyfriend we always over-exagertate the memory of how our ex was....we love attention and you apparently are willing to give it.
think before you go back with her and if you do..... be careful!
these are top secret workings of a girls mind and i shared them with you-hope it makes you think.
you deserve better
2006-10-16 14:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you breake up?She seems to care about you.Let her know that you still love her and that you miss her!Let her understand that you want to get back together!Be carefull! Don't run after her...Talk to her and let her think about what you say...No quick moves. Show her that you care about her and that you can wait!
2006-10-16 14:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in this same situation right now and my ex wanted to get back together a few weeks ago and i was stupid and i didnt take him back then i started talking to this other kid and the kid didnt want a relationship. then i thought really long and hard about what i wanted. i came to the decision that i wanted to be with my ex and we found out **** about each other that we didnt like and i tried but it didnt work and now we arent talking at all. but what i am trying to say is give her time to think about what she wants and if its truly to be with you that she wants go for it.
2006-10-16 14:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by andhersmiletellsadifferentstory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't like what she's in now and knows she can get you to take her back, because, apprently, she can't be on her own. Of course, In two weeks when a new flavor shows up, she'll be saying, "see ya, sucka."
Don't be a door mat.
Be done with it and move on.
2006-10-16 13:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by timc_fla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she is confused so she is taking the attention were ever she can get it move on these situations are never good.
2006-10-16 13:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by candidworker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still has feelings for you.and me being a girl.all i can say is shes gonna listen to her heart.
2006-10-16 14:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by juggalette4lyfe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is scared to leave this guy
2006-10-16 14:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by badassgirl-1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋