If both men and women want it (sex), Why is it so hard somtimes to be in the mood with your partner yet with a stranger or even another friend you could do the deed with them lickity split!? No pun intended.
2006-10-16 06:41:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you know precisely the routine with your partner. The stranger or other friend is mysterious. I think it is human nature to be curious sometimes about what it would be like would someone else. (acting on it though if you are in a relationship is not natural).
2006-10-16 06:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by friend4u726 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on who you ask. I don't do lickity split with friends nor strangers.
Sometimes women are tired, and their libido is not high as men's. If you know what your woman likes, as far as what she finds sexy in you, try wearing that special shirt she likes to see you in, or if she likes the clean cut shave, do it, or if she likes the 5'oclock shadow leave it. Try to be appealing to her, and that might change her mood. I have heard that the more sex you have, the more often you tend to have it. But I don't know if this is true.
2006-10-16 13:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by gjmite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we become so complacent and comfortable with each other, that we lose the buzz and take each other for granted! we stop trying to impress i.e. contorting into every position possible, wobbling round in ridiculously silly outfits, (LOL) acting out each others fantasys, (now u kno wot i bin up to) (or should i say used to!)LOL
we have to make the effort or well we become like most do in a long term relationship! by the way, why dont i take a little of my own advice, don that latex maids outfit, please my man, get him off my case, and then read that good book im engrossed in! x
2006-10-16 13:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by sashlou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a relationship, there are real emotions involved with it... that's why. if i'm feeling down i don't tend to want to have sex with my man. however you can feel the same way and have sex with a stranger or random person for excitement it makes you forget about the blues you have random sex for excitement you have sex with your partner it's usually based on mood
2006-10-16 13:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should do it with your partner out of no where, because then u might get to have (sex) more often. Or just dump him and get a other man who wants to do it all the time!
2006-10-16 13:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by roxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when your with someone you havmore feelings involved and when its a person you dont know or care about then sex is
nothing...just a quick nut and you go on and really dont have to see them again depending on the situation.
2006-10-16 13:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it's same old, same old. It doesn't seem to matter how good it is or how much you try to spice it up, it's all the same.We need variety.
2006-10-16 13:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because everyone has become a bunch of unfaithful horn dogs!
2006-10-16 13:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not real sure about what you're trying to say
2006-10-16 13:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you are asking... but yes... it's true. Now that you know rate me with best answer.
2006-10-16 13:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋