I hooked up with my ex griend a few days ago for dinner. We brooke up over a year ago. I have dated lots of girls but I have not loved any of them the way I love her.
I still have feelings for her and we remained good friends should I pursue her agian?
2006-10-16 06:32:07 · 25 answers · asked by kalik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't fight destiny, life is to be lived with joy. Now, it's your job to declare what your heart is feeling. Whether she accepts it or not. Just Believe!
2006-10-16 06:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been in a similar situation myself not too long ago, my first question is: why did you break up?
My ex and I reconnected about 2 and a half years ago after a 14-year break, and we're still together. Sometimes, it's better the second time around.
If the reason for your break-up has been resolved, talk to her to see if she's open to the idea of rekindling your flame. As long as neither of you are in a relationship now, I say go for it!
2006-10-16 13:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is single you need to find out if she feels the same way for you. Sometimes you may love someone and they don't love you back, so you need to find out and think if this is a person you really want this person in your life as ur other half, or if it is better to just remain as friends, because what if it doesn't work out a second time?
2006-10-16 13:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been a year and like you said you have dated lots but no one makes you feel the way she does. That should tell you something. Maybe she is the one for you and now you realize it.. You should tell her that.. BUT!! don't forget the reasons you broke up, Is it worth a second chance, if so.. Go for it.. you don't want regrets. Good Luck!.. Be Happy, Be loved and Be loving!
2006-10-16 13:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by Shy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it is good that you remain friends, don't forget that she is your ex-girlfriend for a reason. Don't get carried away by emotions or thoughts of grandure now that you two are not in a relationship...think back as to how things truly were when you were together and think about your question again.
2006-10-16 13:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by mvngs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how she feels, but sometimes there is a reason why 2 people arent together! You need to be sure that you really care about her and not just becuase you miss what you guys once had. You can never go back to what once was!
2006-10-16 13:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. What were the terms for breaking up in the first place? If it wasn't good and if it was painful, do you really want to go through that again? Or see her go through it? If terms were ok, which usually aren't...then maybe, just see how she feels about it first. Whatever happens, I wish you both luck!
2006-10-16 13:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Amanda♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's obvioulsy feeling the same way if you hooked up. Just tell her how you feel. Some relationships need that break to realize how much you mean to eachother.
my husband and i went on a 9month break..got back together and we were married 3 months later.
2006-10-16 13:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by michellewho11582 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly that all depends on why you broke up with her in the first place its on you guy if you feel you are ready to go through the ringer again then sure go for it just make sure your heart is in the right place when and if you do because lets just say for instance what if she doesnt want to get back with you so just make sure you look real good before you jump ok good luck......E
2006-10-16 13:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by ellie_m1123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Sounds like you could get a good thing going. Lots of luck.
2006-10-16 13:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋