2006-10-16 06:02:35 · 7 answers · asked by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
JUST SAD.I LOVE MY HUSBAND SO VERY MUCH .I I NEVER WANT TO LIVE WITHOUT HIM.WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED 33 YEARS.I LOVE HIM MORE TODAY THEN EVER.IN A WAY I QUESS I DO FEAR A LIFE WITHOUT HIM.
BUT WE WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN SOMEDAY IN HEAVEN
2006-10-16 06:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by funnana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived alone for 8 years before my son was born. I am fine with being alone, as long as my son is still alive. I can certainly understand the fear of a couple when one spouse dies. My father has done very well, he and my Mom were married 63 years. In fact, he still chases women, marriage never stopped him from doing that, though.
2006-10-16 06:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a time of adjustment and a grieving process to get through....friends help and so does attending church or support groups...and answering questions here helps also.
I am alone...a widow and my last son recently left home....I am lonely, no doubt about it...but I pray and ask God to help me and I depend on my friends more than I used to...hopefully without becoming a drag.
I try to get more involved in the community and get concerned with other people. I help out at the local food bank and I work care giving for an elderly woman...there are times of sadness and of not knowing exactly what to do to fill up my life....but I believe in time I will get guidance and direction and know more how to fill my life up and be content. I think that the key is to focus out of myself on what I can do to be of help to others and of some usefulness in this world.
2006-10-16 06:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by mynickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would miss my spouse a great deal, but I am a loner by nature, so the thought does not bother me too much.
2006-10-16 06:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by mutterhals 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say I think women would cope better than men. Most of the single women I know cope well on their own, in fact some of them prefer it but the same can't be said for single men.
2006-10-16 06:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i lived alone and certainly did not enjoy this situation but GOD provided a fabulous and fantastic Lady to take the loneliness, heartache and bitterness from my heart replacing it with love once again
2006-10-16 06:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Co-dependency develops naturally over time. Why is my cat so different now that her sister died a couple months ago?
2006-10-16 06:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by TCFKAYM 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋