I need to know how to not be jealous and how to keep him interested in me!
Me - 24 years old, relationship history includes unsatisfying relationships that I used to get obsessive over in my youth (lol, by that I mean 18-21), and several one night stands. I've been focused on my two jobs and school for 8 months or so, but I couldn't pass this guy up!
Him - 28, has a kid and was once engaged. Just moved here, likes to go out and party a lot, likes to meet new people
I like him a lot, we've been "talking" for about a week and a half...we have a lot in common, despite our different lifestyles. We've had some heated makeout sessions, with me backing down from sex with great difficulty (don't want to be too easy!). Yesterday he said we should date, but I keep thinking he doesn't mean it or he'll get distracted by girls he's clubbing (etc) with while I'm at school or work.
How do I secure this new relationship and avoid losing the confidence I know he admires?
2006-10-16 05:57:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He dosent sound like a guy you want to get stuck with- remember guys say a lot of things to get into your hotpants.....Keep looking he sounds like he will go for anything with a heartbeat. If you dont trust him while you are at work then that should tell you he isnt for you.
2006-10-16 06:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by naughtiest_nurse_of_em_all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is indeed a party boy like you say.. you dont need bother with him ....you cant have a relationship when your into the party scene it just dont work......ive seen it from both sides of the bar and stage and party boys and girls are always looking for the next party .....so if you dont want to be a party favor leave this one alone
2006-10-16 13:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by Unfrozen Caveman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still give him a chance. maybe he DOES mean it. And I think every relationship should start with some trust
2006-10-16 13:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by e-pack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date him but dont give it up to him for a while and see how things go
2006-10-16 13:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by ndn_202 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋