Been with my girlfriend for over two years. She hangs out with ex boyfriends occasionally. Saturday night she went to her alma mater college for homecoming. I called her twice at night and she didn't call back. I called her in the morning and she called an hour later. A couple ex-boyfriends from college were around. She sees no reason for me to be annoyed that she didn't call me back. She calls me shady if I drive to the city and go out with a buddy and crash on his couch, and call and tell what I am doing, and call and talk to her before I crash on his couch. In past relationships she has overlapped, cheated etc. She still talks to one ex in particular and the d-bag moved close to our area, said he moved for her, and tried to talk her into getting back together. He conviently was at homecoming. Can someone tell me one reason to stay? By the way, a really attractive cool girl asked me out at the bar when she was away not returning my calls. That further messes up my thinking.
2006-10-16 05:48:01 · 21 answers · asked by orangecrate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say break up with her. She doesn't trust you but doesn't answer phone calls if you ask where she has been. She calls you shady if you have been hanging out with your boys for a few hours. Seems to me like she doesn't trust you or is using excuses to really hide what is going on. Break up with her. It is not worth staying in a relationship that has got your thinking all twisted. Looks to me like she wants to have her man and have her 'fun' too.
2006-10-16 05:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by cfalways 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to stay. Your so called girlfriend is disrespecting you totally, if not already cheating. Think about it-- WHY would an exboyfriend be moving closer to the area for HER, if she's not encouraging him somehow?? If it were me, I'd probably tell her it's over (it's heading that way anyway, right? Why waste time prolonging it?). Afterwards, it would be okay to go out with the new girl. Cheating is uncool, and two wrongs don't make a right. It's a matter of self respect more than anything else.
2006-10-16 05:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has done this to you in the past and she continues to think that she can get away with it then she will. I say if that is the case then cut her lose and get with miss new booty. Tell her that you aren't interested in her anymore and that the questionable things she's doing is the reason why. If she isn't doing things that she shouldn't be then she should be capable of answering the phone when you call unless all of her boys just don't know about you. Tell her that you don't think she is really ready for a one on one relationship and that the trust that should be there isn't do to prior incidences and that you have to let her go.
I say all this because it just doesn't sound like you are that into her anymore and if that's the case then why invest anymore time and worry.
Get your groove on with miss new booty but break it off with her first.
2006-10-16 05:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say break up with her. She doesn't trust you but doesn't answer phone calls if you ask where she has been. She calls you shady if you have been hanging out with your boys for a few hours. Seems to me like she doesn't trust you or is using excuses to really hide what is going on. Break up with her. It is not worth staying in a relationship she can't have her cake and eat it at the same time dump her man you deserve better you deserve someone who doesnt treat you like your creepin around town when she is
2006-10-16 05:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the Girl you met in the bar. I could give you a reason why youshould try to wrok things out but then you said that she was a cheater and an ex moved into your neighbourhood.
Go find the girl from the bar hon.
2006-10-16 05:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby bye. Leave her ***. First of all if shes cheated before she would cheat again. Why would you accept her conversating with her ex. Then she had the nerve to tell you that her ex is moving to be close and how he ants her back, come on man. If she told you that then more than likely she was with him. Do she mind if you talk to your ex? I think the girl from the bar was a sign so move on and let her be with her ex.
IF YOUR GUT IS TELLING YOU SHE LAID UP LAST NIGHT BUSTING DOWN WITH HER EX, GO WITH YOUR GUT. LEAVE HER ALONE
2006-10-16 05:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Luckys Charm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She hangs out with ex boyfriends????? called her twice at night and she didn't call back???called her in the morning and she called an hour later???? i think she is cheating ... hanging out with exs is enough ... go out with the new girl and forget all about her ...
GOOD LUCK :)
2006-10-16 05:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by judy abott 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably cheating. You're jealous (probably justified) and not ready for a relationship anyway. Yeah, go ahead and call Miss NewBooty.
No reason to stay with someone who can't be honest.
2006-10-16 05:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say move on, once a cheater almost always a cheater. Not everytime, but where there is smoke there is fire. I say go with the cool new girl and just make sure you don't take any of this baggage with you. Best of luck.
2006-10-16 05:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a lot of stress that you dont need, I would dump her and go otu with the chick from bar
2006-10-16 05:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋