2006-10-16 05:46:36 · 36 answers · asked by prncez_princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DON'T DO IT!!! You should pursue whatever dreams you have. I'm sure starting a family is one of them. Idk how old u are, but you shouldnt be in a committed relationship right now. It's totally up to you; make love if u so choose. I'm just saying that your life will revolve around your child if you choose to have it.
2006-10-16 05:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by g13player 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're unsure enough to be writing a question about it here then you definitely should NOT be getting pregnant. Having a baby is a lifetime decision and responsiblity...it's not the latest fashion trend or momentary decision just because your boyfriend feels like it. Looking after a baby is mega difficult and not something to be taken lightly. You need to 100% certain it's what you and boyfriend both want, and that you have the ability to care for your child whatever happens. It doesn't sound to me like this is the case at all, not to mention the fact you sound very young to me. For goodness sake, and for the baby's sake, don't get pregnant. I had a disabled son at 22 and although I love him very much I wouldn't have had him then if I could turn back time. Live a little first and tell your boyfriend it needs to be a joint decision. If he doesn't respect that he has no business as a boyfriend or a father.
2006-10-16 05:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason you should get pregnant is because YOU want to have a baby. Babies are expensive and they are for life. It is a big responsiblity. What if things don't work out with your boyfriend? Can you support the baby on your own? Does your boyfriend have a good job to pay child support? These are questions you need to ask yourself before you have a baby.
2006-10-16 05:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's "often ok" once you p.c. to and you sense comfortable doing so, and not because of the fact of rigidity or every person else's impact or opinion. in basic terms you could answer this question for your self. If truthfully everyone in this board instructed you it would be ok at 3 weeks and you probably did no longer sense waiting, it would in basic terms deliver approximately catastrophe. you may the two a) have intercourse with him once you probably did no longer p.c. it, or b) no longer have intercourse and picture something is incorrect with you. As for excuses, you do no longer choose any. in case you're no longer waiting, you're no longer waiting and he could settle for that or circulate on. think of roughly what form of relationship you would be having in case you have been basically having intercourse to soothe him.
2016-12-26 20:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fall in love , get married, just a few dumb things like that. Also he needs a job to support a wife and child. Starting a family and bringing a new life to this earth shouldn't be a sport.
2006-10-16 05:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do, are you ready to be a mother?Do some serious thinking about bringing a child into this world without being in a committed relationship.
2006-10-16 05:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the woman and its 100% up to you. I hope that you are both older and out of high school or college. Again, its up to you its your body and its you that will need to take care of this baby for the rest of its life. Hope you both make the right decision
2006-10-16 05:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your f****** crazy for starters!!! I think you should be financially stable and married ( no offense to single mothers) think about it if he leaves you then what the hell are you going to do if you are married then its kinda a legally binding partnership!!! Plus, do you really like or want kids??? Its not about what he wants it your body and if you don't want to have a baby then tell him that if he feels the need to plant his seed tell him to grow a garden!!!! Stay on birth control until you are married!!!
2006-10-16 05:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by Brandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's up to you,If you know that your not ready for that kind of readabilities you should not have a baby.You have to be ready physical,financially and mentally,you have to be sure that your b/f will be there for you and be a man and stand up to his responsibilities if you have all this then it's a go but you have to make that decision not your b/f.
2006-10-16 06:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend that you don't think that would be a good idea. most boyfriends who get their girlfriends pregnant end up being jerks and won't want anything to do with the girl. is your boyfriend responsible enough to be a father and is he going to pay all your medical bills. something to think about
2006-10-16 05:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋