Has she picked up my signals and she's starting 2 like me or is it just my imagination?

Question

Theres this gurl i like in my classes. I've started sitting next 2 her and once i even gave her a teddy bear and i've been really nice 2 her without her acting diferent in any way. But in the last few days i've noticed that shes acting diferently around me even asking me if she could keep the pen she borrowed from me. When she says bye 2 me shes starting 2 say it in that i like u-ish tone. Has she picked up my signals and started 2 like me or is it just my imagination? (If u've already answered dont bother urself)

Answer 1

I think that you should ask for her phone number or ask her out on a date. Start from here to show her that you are really interested in her. Women like men who are not scared to go get what they want. So stop making these passive gestures and be more aggressive. You seem like you may be a young guy.

Answer 2

Hmmm. Without knowing her, or you, I'm guessing here -- probably it's at least crossing her mind. She may be wondering, if not sure.

Here's the thing - how much do you want to know the answer? Sorry to say, romance at some point involves risk. At some point, you'll either have to saddle up and ask her out -- even if it's something low-risk, like asking her to join a group of friends going to a movie, or to join you at a coffee shop to talk about whatever mutual interest you have -- or decide that you'd rather risk not finding out than risk being rejected.

Maybe it's time to start talking to her. The more you talk to her, the more you'll find out that you have things in common and enjoy being around her - or you don't. You'll find some common interest - skating, music, art, antique spoons, whatever - and you can ask her if she wants to grab some coffee, milkshake, whatever - and talk about it. You can ask her to join you at a museum, or skating park, or whatever's appropriate.

She'll say yes, or no, or maybe. Yes, great, you do that, you find out if you still enjoy her company when you know her better. She says "no," ouch, but not fatal, and you find out something you need to know - and get to know other girls, some of whom will say "yes." She says "maybe," you do more talking, you get to know her better.

Trying to read her "signals" can be fun, but confusing. Easier just to talk to her more - then you'll know. Good luck!

Answer 3

You will find out with a little more time. If she wants to get to know you better, she will make sure you know one way or another.