Ok ... my ex broke up with me a couple months ago .... after a month met a new guy and started hanging out. Now heres what shes been sayin, and the person telling me this is very relieable, and wouldnt stretch it at all:
My ex will randomly say i miss him, and i want to talk to him. Out of no where.
Says im the only person that truly understands her, and who she really trusts.
Will not have sex with this new guy because she will think about me.
Her and this guy fight all of the time. And she is sayin this stuff about me. we hadnt talked at all in over a month, then 2 weeks ago she was texing me all night, and wanted to call me out of the blue. Her friend said she was going crazy that night because she wanted to talk to me. We talked for over an hour. Then we talked a little, and sent a few texts over the weekend. Then for a week we didnt really talk, just a text here and there. What the hell should i think of this situation, i know she cares, but shes still with him?
2006-10-16 05:08:43 · 8 answers · asked by whatitdo52253 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she realizes that she made a mistake leaving you and this is what it took to realize that you are the one for her.
I would wait for text and give her a call and just come out and ask her what she is going to do. If you want her back then tell her, I miss us and want you to truly let me know if you miss us too. And if you do then you let him go and you and I can begin to rebuild our relationship again, and if that is not what she wants then tell her you can remain friends and talk when she needs to.
But that when you begin another relationship with someone else you will not be at her beckon call anymore and at that point your time with her will have come and gone.
2006-10-16 05:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware!!!!!! You know the saying you never miss your water until your well runs dry. Let her be just that you ex--she is playing mind games with you and do not allow her to manipulate the situation and don't you allow others to come and tell you about her relationship that is just messy and why would you want to know about her disfunctional relationship. If she text's you again just let her know you are not up for games and she need to concentrate on her new relationship see ya when I see ya. Think about it sweetie she broke up with you and after a month she found someone else ....baby that other guy was there all along he just didn't magically appeared in one month of your breaking up. Take this time to be by yourself to figure out what you want and then get into another relationship--no I am not saying be a hermit date but nothing serious. Remember let you ex be your ex.
2006-10-16 06:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably knows deep down that you might be the one but maybe she's scared of such a strong committment, to be with someone for ever. Maybe she is just taking a break right now to test the waters and see if her true feelings for you show, which it sounds like they are starting to do. Or maybe she does miss you and want to be with you, but there is something that she does not like or could not live with.
2006-10-16 05:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by cary_bell_2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. This skank doesn't know what she wants out of life. You'll become like Forrest Gump and travel the world and the Seven Seas before she admits to herself that she likes you.
By that time she'll have HIV already.
2006-10-16 05:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she break up with you in the first place ? Did she meet this new guy and dump you to go out with him ? Maybe now that things aren't working out with him she wants you back. If that's the case I wouldn't go back. Who wants to be second choice ?
2006-10-16 05:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry pal, but I think she is just trying to have you on the side. It seems that she only wants to screw you up so you can not be happy with any body else.
2006-10-16 05:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can really do is talk to her. you will never know how she feels about you if you dont just talk to her. Good Luck!
2006-10-16 05:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is where i get to use the word "insidious". she's manipulating you. she somehow knows that this guy knows that guy and it will all come back to you. i'm a girl...i should know.
2006-10-16 05:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋