Everytime in the last couple of months i get more and more turned on by my gf everytime im with her.And many times even when she's not there.Sumtimes ive to hide my...well u know the hard mass from her.Once she felt it when we were close...i tried to get her expression and it looked as if she was trying to hide a smile.I dint sak her anyhting as i was too embarassed.One time i cud cleraly make out wen she put her hand on it to c wheteher i had one(i almost came in her hand) and then quickly changed the topic.Now she's 18 and im 19.I dunno how to bring out this topic to her...coz i luv her and i dont want this to end with her thinkin im some pervert.i want this to continue.So shud i ask her to go for it as in u knwo the next step or shud i just keep quite?It's not that she's totally religious or anyhting it's just that everytime i picture even bringing out the topic i picture the worst .Have i acted too late?Or shud i just do her?See now i look perverted but that's the feel wantitso bad
2006-10-16 05:04:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she never had sex, like still a virgin, you need to be very careful of the things you say and do.
If she been there and done that already then you just need to be honest. I can say that it is not time yet cause you wouldn't feel like you do if it were. Don't worry. Just be honest with how you feel.
2006-10-16 05:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha. I don't mean to laugh at your dilema, but this is a cute and funny situation. I think you should simply talk to her about it. Ask how she feels about taking it to the next level. If she says, yes, then great! If she says no, then talk to her about what she is comfortable with, and when she might be comfortable taking the next step. Oh, and ALWAYS use a condom!
2006-10-16 05:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you tell her your going to take her out for a special dinner. Then once you have wined and dined her, take her back to your place, have candles, roses and "clean sheets" LOL. She will get the picture and she will be happy that you took your time to plan the special night!
2006-10-16 05:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you love her, and that she makes you feel like no other woman can. Pick a nice romantic setting, and tell her that you want to make love to her, and that it's not about just sex, that you want to be more intimate with her than you have ever been before. That you want to give yourselves to each other. Just make sure to use protection.
2006-10-16 05:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by rmdndangerous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then initiate it little by little and if she still goes with the flow, continue until the final stage and don't forget to use protection.
2006-10-16 05:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her you could have an honest conversation with her.If you are not mature enough to discuss the situation you are not mature enough to get intimate.
2006-10-16 05:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by Style Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you guys have been dating for 2 years it should be time to have sex but you just got to talk to her and find out if she is ready. you will never know if she is ready if you dont talk to her. figuring out when it is time requires to talk to each other. Good Luck!
2006-10-16 05:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um......... U should probaly tell her, but not aske her, just aske her how she feels about it. You do not want her getting the wrong experssion about it. Just bring up the sujbect and that's it...
2006-10-16 05:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by roxannafw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant act shy about it dude. if you got wood, dont hide it from her. at least that way she knows shes got u turned on. no tellin where things might go then!
2006-10-16 05:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by pitbulldawgz82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just gon head and tell her, all that backed up sperm could start mesing w/ ya here soon!!
2006-10-16 05:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by BooSha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋