for a guy to rather keep a relationship casual despite him saying that he really likes you etc....?x
2006-10-16 05:03:53 · 17 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can I add that I havent slept with him.
2006-10-16 05:08:02 · update #1
He's either afraid of commitment or doesn't think that a relationship is a viable possible at the moment - have had a similar reaction from a friend who claimed she had not enough time to do a relationship justice.
2006-10-16 05:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casual is a great thing for a guy to say (sorry guys). This way they can have you when they want you and they can also see other women. You ask that guy if he would like his sister (if he has one) to have a casual relationship with one of his friends? He doesn't want a commitment. I always thought of casual as me being one of their dolls to play with when they wanted to. Like you were in their black book of call girls. I wasn't into that at all. I wish you the best of luck in relationships in the future!
2006-10-16 05:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by hard rock girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that he's young and doesn't want to get tied down and probably does REALLY like you and is holding out for a possible better option. If you're not happy with the casual nature of your relationship end it. If it turns out he does REALLY like you he will uncasualify the relationship.
2006-10-16 05:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly are you calling casual?
He probably respects you enough to want to wait. Or maybe he is on a rebound and is trying to take it slow. Or maybe he is just not that into you. I would suggest communicating with him and asking him if he sees the relationship blossoming into something more than just friends. And if not then you can continue to look for that special someone while being his friend and if he does want it to become something more and that is what you want you can be open to moving things up a step.
2006-10-16 05:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys keep ALL relationships casual until they sleep with you. Then.. they may still keep them casual. Why? because until they are about 28/29/30 or so.. thats all they want to do.. is go out have fun.. get laid and not have any strings attached. So.. go with it.. have fun with it... go out with lots of other guys - there is nothing saying you can't - in fact you SHOULD!!!! Date as many as possible - find out what you like and why... have fun!!!!
2006-10-16 05:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that he does'nt want you to start running his life, and he feels like a free man if he's not tied down to you. He can go out with someone else if he want's to, but he still likes you a little, so he don't want to give you up either. Also, I don't know what your looking for, but if you want commentment, you might want to leave him.
2006-10-16 06:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by wingedstrider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear. Not ready to make an actual commitment. Doesnt have the same feelings. Has other goals he wants to accomplish first (career, education, etc).
2006-10-16 05:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just not ready for a one on one committed relationship.
2006-10-16 05:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's just scared of commitment or he just see's you as someone to sleep with but doesn't want to have a serious relationship. Ask him, see how he feels
2006-10-16 10:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Chappers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ready, or your just not the type of girl he wants to settle down with.
2006-10-16 05:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by Yaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋