Theres this woman at work, We have. I mean that I have told her of my feelings for her. One problem, she's my supervisor!!! I know she likes me, she said so. We've not seen eachother in two days, I mean come on, I'm 42 years old. I'm to old for this crap. Oh yeah she's 2 years older than me. We "Bump" into mone another through out the day! She has these subtle touches. No she touches me, on places she has never doen before! I admit I like the attention. How can I do this?? Any advice??
2006-10-16 04:57:34 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are totally playing with fire here. Think about how miserable you will be on the job if you begin a relationship with her and it goes south. Also, does your company have rules about this sort of thing? I'm betting someone knows what's going on already, no matter how careful you and she have been. Things like this are nearly impossible to hide.
Before you do anything, you need to be prepared for many possible negative outcomes. Here's another: what if the problem of her being your supervisor is resolved by somehow promoting you? That will likely lead to negative feelings from co-workers (especially if they already have an inkling of what's going on).
This is why people say don't dip your pen in the company ink. I realize this is very exciting for you but it could turn to dreadfully stressful in a heartbeat if you're not careful and prepared.
2006-10-16 05:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by James L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, unless your thinking of a "Career change" leave her alone!!!
Its a big rush to have this attention in an enviornment that your expected to have sex as the last thing on your mind, but you need to think about this!
Ok, I'll be honest with you. Some guys can handle sex within the work place, but since your on here asking this question, then evidently you wont be able to handle this.
I know this guy at my job who has slep w/ two different women and he handled things perfectly. I dont know how he did it, but he did it.
You have to know when to say when, and turn them away from you before things get "Ugly". You know, when that awkward attachment/feeling comes around. If you knew how to do that, you could do what you wanted, when you wanted to. But like I said, you dont seem to know how to do it, so my suggestion is to leave it alone.
PLUS, you said she's your supervisor right??!!
Save your job dude and leave her alone!!!
2006-10-16 12:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like to be in charge at work, but after work you might be the one in charge. If she's clueing you in maybe she wants you to make the first move? So see if she wants to get a drink after work on a Friday. (keyword friday). That way you won't risk your employement or she'll think your a drunk.
By being Friday is better then wednesday.
1 your nota drunk who goes out every night
2 It doesn't seem like your being to forceful
3 You'' get to get to know her and stay out late without having to get up early and women like it when men care about there jobs.
If you know it's on a night where she won't be in the office then you can spend more time as well. Try it friday.
2006-10-16 12:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will give my advice that i always give in these situations - unzip pull it out and ask her if she "wants some" if she says no then tell her you misread the signals (deep down she will be flattered trust me i know chicks) if she says yes HOOHAAA!
2006-10-16 12:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by mr_soapytitwank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy boss's day! LOL
sounds like she's afraid to get involved with you b/c it would probably cost her her job
2006-10-16 12:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out
2006-10-16 12:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋