My mom is 37 years old. she is not fat at all, she works out and have a nice shaped body. she has pretty good looks and a body, not just for her age, but also overall. she look like 25 years old girl.
My girl friends are saying, i shouldnt try to stop her from doing anything and espacially if she has a body, she should show off and saying i should be a proud of having a hot mom. theyre also saying, if they were that old and have a nice body like that, they would love it and would also love to show that body off...... is it wrong for my mom to wear revealing clothes, she wears shirts with deep necks, that shows major cleavage, tight clothing, short skirts.... and etc, etc..... Does anyones mom dresses like that????
2006-10-16 04:53:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No- she's not only a "Mom", she's also a person. She has her own life, her own ideals, her own thoughts and existed on this earth long before you were born. She seems to work hard for her body- let her show it.
2006-10-16 04:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by Genevieve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gentleman
amir K
Well , Your perfectly edited content and words say that ur not less than 19 yrs maybe your excessive reading of books about bad Moms has given you wrong perception about a MOM
Refering ur name if so true
Your simple solution is a traditional VEIL to the repectable lady.
Displaying (reveal) theory is an utter NO, that too when it hurts values of the child & others as well
The rootcause to your prpoblem probably may be you alone, ?
The worst neglect by the Spouse & Children and their soooo busy activities with gal friends (many) commenting about the MOTHER figure etc explains the negligence by you & other family members, STOP acting on gals advises TALK to your Mom straight forward tell her How much you love and respect her and how you vlaue the VEIL, Veil for the family, Convince her to behave like a Adult, Make her realise that you are still around here for her,
You Try to avoid public advise (gals) who r not ur family,
Act like a Adult,
No Faith in the world recommends,
any Moms Kidding in front of a child
No Mom does that unless the family fairly neglects her and are too busy for themselves.
With my full respect to the very word itself 'Mom'
2006-10-16 05:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has a bigger problem than you may realize.
She should not want to wear such revealing clothing.
Why is she doing it?
She also knows she is 37.
That's hard to accept.
She is trying to hold onto her youth as much as possible.
Catching men looking at her fulfills a twisted need she has.
Your mom has to realize that its not what she shows that interests many men, its what she doesn't show.
Get the idea into her head she can attract attention by being well-dressed, not just un-dressed.
2006-10-16 05:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by Uncle Thesis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 37 and i don't dress revealing but i do dress like my teenage daughter we are constantly borrowing eachother's clothes,you are as young as you feel dear,i dont feel old why should i look and act that way? why should your mom,mom's want to feel attractive too we dont just shivel up and die after we have kids you know,we feel all the same emotions that we did when were were younger just at a different maturity level
2006-10-16 05:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by onyxpryzm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom never dressed like that but I think your friends are right and I think that if she feels comfortable in it than more power to her. Why exercise and keep your body in tip top shape just to cover it up.
2006-10-16 05:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok for her to love her body and it sounds like she works very hard to keep it.. Its true that lazy over- weight people wiil find fault with her but , I thank you should be proud of her. Most peoples moms don't dress like this because most moms aren't this beautiful.
2006-10-16 05:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's a grown woman. She can dress absolutely any way she wants. My husband's step-mom is about 45 and dresses like that. There's nothing wrong with it if it is what she wants. It certainly isn't hurting anything.
2006-10-16 04:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by cottontaily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she feels that since she has raised beautiful children (if you have any other siblings), that it is her turn to have fun. However, I wouldn't want my mother to be wearing anything like that. Most men go for what they don't "see" more than what they do see, she can still be sexy, when she "dresses" in more clothes. Let her know that you want her to have fun, but you are conserned about her pick in clothing, and that you don't want anyting to happen to her, maybe both of you can go shopping together, and would like to see her in "sexy, but unrevieling clothing".
2006-10-16 06:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by Heartful_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have a problem with the way your mother dresses. If so you should speak to her about it. It is not wrong for her to wear what she wants to but she should take your feelings into consideration. A mother represents not only herself but her family as well.
2006-10-16 05:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by Bill Payer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a right to dress how she likes but then again she is a mom and should show some decency if she wants her children to respect her
2006-10-16 04:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋