I have been seeing this girl now for 3 months, we are both very adventurous and things have been going great, however she recently told me that she would like me to dress more fem, she likes the idea of having control, from the start she has always had a wild side, and is very adventourous.....! what should I do? should I try this for her? if so what should I wear?
2006-10-16 04:48:12 · 27 answers · asked by djp6314 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all the responses, I am male! By adventourous we mean, well we try lots of different things, in the bedroom she likes to be more dominant, which for me is fun and for her too! she has some wild ideas sometimes and we talk and laugh about them, but she is indeed more serious on this one.... really not sure.....!!
2006-10-16 05:03:59 · update #1
if she likes you for you she wouldnt expect you too change... i would ask her why she feels that you should change when she got with you the way you look just now!! did she want you or a project???
2006-10-16 04:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by shagkitten21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong answer here. From what you say, you enjoy her being in control. Perhaps you are a little uncomfortable with the unknown - this is uncharted territory for you. Being completely honest with you, I think you should tell her what you have said to us. Say that you like her being in control, however you are not sure if dressing up in women's clothing is something that you are comfortable with, but you would like to give it a try and see how it goes. If you enjoy it then great; if you don't enjoy it then at least you have tried and you know it is not your kink. That way, you are at least making an effort to fulfil your girlfriend's fantasy, and you're still keeping your options open.
Let us know how you get on.
2006-10-16 12:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like her and are having fun, by all means, dress up for her. Let her feminize you if she wants. Submissve guys usually find they like it. Dress up in what you think is sexy. If you both like it, you can go further. Try wearing makeup. Get a wig, if you don't have long hair. Find out what she's looking for. Does she want a girlfriend or a feminine boyfriend?
2006-10-17 00:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by girlieboi1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no harm in trying as long as you feel comfortable! Although from the question I'm not quite sure what you mean. Is this a 'she wants you in ladies underwear' or 'she would like you in a pink shirt every now and then and use moisturiser. -Neither you should be embarrassed about if there is trust..
2006-10-16 11:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should only do what you really want to do.pear presure will not work in any relationship.
Tell her suttly, try putting the fem clothes on and asking her to wear a dick , if she is not happy too, then neither are you.
2006-10-16 11:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by DARES 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wear what you want to wear not what she wants you to wear. shes not your mum. and anyway your a man why would or should you dress fem be masculin as you are a man!!!!!. have some control of what you wear at least if nothing else
2006-10-16 14:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try it,you might like it.you said she likes being in control,finding a dominant girl isnt easy to come by,,enjoy
2006-10-16 11:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by cindyxdresser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would do one of two things:
Politely decline (control si a funny thing, once you lose it, you can't get it back)
Get a definition as to what is "fem"
2006-10-16 11:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, but draw the line at control top hose
2006-10-16 11:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only do what u are comfortable doing otherwise u will do more and more things u dont like. if she is dominant im surprised she hasn't told u what to wear
2006-10-16 12:07:29 · answer #10 · answered by rachel d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋