my gf is pregnant and she is sleeping in the car?

Question

this past weekend she asked me to move in
we havent been in the best of terms cuz she be trippin
it has been an week an a hlaf that her parent threw her out now she wants to live with me and invade my space that i created withmy dogs.
i live in a small studio apt i only have a twin size bed and a small sofa where the dogs sleep at. she asked me to move in
but where am i m going to let her stay there s no space
my dogs sleep on the sofa the twin bed is too small for both of us so she has been sleepin the car i dont mind her sleeping a day her or there but i dont want to inconvenience my dogs cuz they dont like her.

what should i do
any suggestions or programs that are available
thanks

ITS NOT MY FAULT HER PARENTS THREW HER OUT

GOSHHHHH ITS NOT

Answer 1

Are you really choosing your dogs over your unborn child? Grow up!

Answer 2

Don't be a jerk, you have a baby on the way. The baby growing inside her is more important than your dogs or your space. Besides it was a sexual act between you and her that got her in the position she is in. You need to be a man here and step up and help.

You could go to a second hand store and get a bigger bed, in the mean time make do with what you have and let her stay, that bed was obviously big enough to make a baby in, why is it all of a sudden off limits for sleeping in?

But to be honest this is something you should have both thought about before you had unprotected sex.

If you are not going to help her and your baby then you need to step up offer other alternatives. If you aren't willing to help her and be a dad then you need to tell her and help her decide what to do, and maybe you should speak to her parents.

Answer 3

Ok, I suggest that you let her sleep on the sofa where your dogs usually sleep. You have to decide what is more important because you are about to have a son or daughter and are about to be a father. Hopefully your girlfriend works things out with her parents and maybe you can help her with that because it sounds like you dont have much room to spare. But for now I suggest just for a couple days until she works things out that you let her sleep on the couch even if the dogs dont like her too much. Plus she is pregnant and going through hormonal changes which probably makes her moody and emotional so just be there for her through this and hopefully she works this out soon! Good luck to you and her!

Answer 4

I'm going to take a guess that the two of you had sex in your apartment some where ( the bed the sofa) she's pregnant she shouldn't be sleeping in a car . And since your not willing to help her out because your dogs are more important you shouldn't have been having sex with your gf but maybe your dogs . get a life

Answer 5

I'm assuming that the baby is yours, correct?

What kind of a jackass would allow the mother of his child to sleep in the car so his dogs can have the sofa?!?!?

Newsflash: You are a father to be and the health and well being of the mother and your future child are your responsibility!

Grow up and be a man. The dogs can find a patch of floor for awhile until you get a bigger bed.

Answer 6

You got her pregnant and now you don't want to take responsability for it? Who cares how your dogs feel you should have thought ablut that before you decided not to use protection. Children are a lifelong responsability and you need to realize that. You need to get a good job and a new apartment and take care of the woman that you were intimate with. And as for the dogs take them to obedience school if htey become a problem. Dogs are a lot better at adapting to that kind of change than people and i think you saying they don't like her is a cop out because you havn't grown up enough to take responsability for your actions.

Answer 7

I think that you need to do some major prioritizing. Let's see... Your dogs.....OR THE WOMAN PREGNANT WITH YOUR CHILD. I suggest giving her your twin bed, kicking the dogs off the couch and take the sofa. You better hope that one day she will let you share that small twin bed after making her sleep in a car. You are unbelievable!!!Have a heart would you. God I hope you are not serious!!!

Answer 8

I truly hope that you are not being serious. Especially if she is prego. by you. You are calling her your girlfriend, but it doesn't sound as if you treat her as one! How selfish of you to put both yourself and your mutts before an innocent unborn child! So, tell me, what kind of father do you have plans on being? Look, if you truly don't want her there do the next best thing and help her get set up in a small studio apt. just for her...That would be the "right" thing to do-if you have morals and values that is!

Answer 9

Your a horrible man! Who cares what your dogs think. This girl is pregnant with YOUR BABY. You want your child sleeping in a car to bc you dont want to hurt your dogs' feelings? Get over it, you sound like a horrible boyfriend and if I was her I'de get rid of you in a heartbeat. You two go buy a bigger bed and make things work, who cares about some damn dogs sleeping on a freaking couch. They are animals, you can get some new ones that like your girlfreind. Get over yourself and your dogs. Be a man go buy a bigger bed and let your PREGNANT girlfriend sleep in a house.

Answer 10

Programs my ***. You should let her live with you get a bigger bed. I can't believe you let your PREGNANT girl sleep in the car.
Are you cold hearted or do you really love her?,..or are you using her? What is the real story? Take care of her if she is having your baby. She needs you more than you probably know. Be that guy who we dream of and take her and screw the dogs, she's a human being. Do the right thing.
cheers darlin

Answer 11

You are so damn shallow! You'd rather have a pregnant girl sleep in a car than to make room for her in your home. Screw the dogs! You could sleep on the floor with them and give her your bed. It's called making a SACRIFICE. How fu***ng low of you to even weigh the option between the dogs and your PREGNANT girlfriend. You will have nothing but misfortunes and bad karma for the rest of your life for doing this, mark my words!