my boyfriend and i had a heated disagreement this weekend about some text messeges in both our phones. i had sent a picture to my guy friend in Virginia and he found out about it. i guess this was proof enough for him to think i was cheating and he was so "floored with emotion" and got really angry and started crying and asked me if i was messing around with this guy and how long i'd known him. i told him that it was just a picture, he was my online friend and what could i do with someone that doesnt live anywhere near i do. anyway i dont know why he would cry about that, hes never cried before in the year we've been together, i thought it was bs and it went on for about 10 minutes i wanted to laugh but i thought it was innappropriate. i guess he was "hurt" but not hurt enough to break up with me. i think he just feels guilty because he's got something to hide himself.
2006-10-16 04:44:35 · 10 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want to seem insensitive but we have had or ups and downs and its been rocky and he is not thay innocent. i just dont think he loves me as much as he says he does.
2006-10-16 04:52:05 · update #1
i found questionable text messeges in his phone and inquired about that and he said he wasnt messing with her, he called and she confirmed but i still dont believe it. thats why i let him go through my phone so he would see how i feel.
2006-10-16 04:57:42 · update #2
Now if he is crying than he is deeply in love with you. But that doesn't mean just because he was crying that it means that he is hiding something. But if he really was crying then he loves you and i dont no what you should do with that guy in virginia but maybe stay out of contact with him with pictures though like you might want to talk to him but not send pictures because if my husband was sending pictures to another girl in another state i would be pretty upset to and i would cry to but he is showing his emotions for you and you should think about that. Good Luck!!
2006-10-16 06:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by 7thangel a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think you're being a little shallow? I think you've got a great guy and you don't deserve him. Why does him crying make you think he is being dishonest? My ex partner would sometimes be moved to tears and that was because he was in touch with his emotions - a rare quality in a man these days - and he cared enough to be moved to tears. I think you should break up with him and let the poor guy find someone who deserves him and doesn't judge his feelings.
2006-10-16 04:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't appreciate and understand a genuine outpouring of emotion like that, then I guess you two are in a sticky situation. Have you ever seen a bf of yours cry? If yes, I would suggest you might be a bit too cool with your SO's. If not, I would suggest that you realize that guys don't cry often, so he must be genuinely hurt by it.
2006-10-16 04:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he would have cried if he does not care for you, deeply. If I were you, I'd cut off contact with this friend in Virginia, and let him know YOU are most important to me.
2006-10-16 04:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think he needs to find another girl and keep you around until he can replace you with someone that wants a real relationship
2006-10-16 04:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Eric c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my,,, I think this guy has feelings and you hurt him bad, you should be ashamed of yourself, how many females wish their guy would show emotion and now your just stomping on his, I think you owe him a big I'M SORRY,
2006-10-16 04:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're being way cold and inconsiderate. he was hurt, because he loves you and doesn't want to lose you. personally, with your attitude, i think he's better off without.
2006-10-16 04:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky girl, it's because he cares.
2006-10-16 04:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by Doight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy needs to dump you.
2006-10-16 04:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was crying? uh, he's gay...no question
2006-10-16 04:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋