like I had a job though it didnt work out,
and I get scared if I meet some guy whos working and he thinks oh she aint doing anything, hes not gonna like me
2006-10-16 04:35:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself...its YOU he likes - not your proffesion - you have a whole lifetime of work ahead of you (great) you have nothing to prove to anyone , do what makes you happy - and if anyone has a problem with it its his loss - let him go out with a girl with a job , but that won't be YOU - you can't judge character by proffesion
2006-10-16 06:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by chandra 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if a guy truely loves you it shouldnt matter to him whether or not you have a job, you see with my girlfriend i love her for who she is, not what she does. It wouldnt matter to me if she had no job because i love her for who she is and that will never change. Being in love is about loving that person and wanting to be with them not about how much money they have. If my g/f didnt have a job it would not change how i feel about her, i will always love her no matter what happens because she is my true love.
Hope this helps
Take care and good luck, theres a guy out there who will love you for who you are and make u the happiest person in the world, he's just got to find u first. He'll come to you when u least expect it, if u dont try looking for love then it will find you in the most unexpected way.
2006-10-16 11:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Chappers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has having a job got to do with a relationship ?
If you find a partner, then fate will be fate...
Stop thinking about things that may or may not happen.
If you are love, what does working have to do with it ? Anyway. if you haven't got a job, then meeting him at lunch or after work will improve things in a relationship.
And if any guy thinks that just because you are out of work, you are any less of a person, then give them a smack from me.
2006-10-16 04:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by DARES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course a guy can marry a girl who doesn't work actually there are lots of guys who'd rather take care of all their girl's expenses and needs. So even if you do like to work some guys will wait till youget a job without complainig at all, and be patient.
2006-10-16 04:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the moment im not working either........but were still getting married...we support each other 100% so it doesnt matter if i dont have a job or i have a bad spot.........he loves me for me........so of course a guy will marry you........its all about YOU not what you do for a living
2006-10-16 04:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it totally depends on u.
my bro is engaged and they've been together 7 yrs now but last year b4 they got engaged he lost his job...h broke up with her as he sisnt wanna scrounge off her or her to pay for everything, they stayed mates and when he found his current job they got back together.
saying that i was unemployed when i meet my bloke and only found a job a few monthd later.. we're married now.. as long as u have fun with out laying it on too thick at first u should be fine
x
2006-10-16 04:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by emboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The job should not be a factor and for a decent person, but there is no accounting for individual prejudice. If the guy doesnt care then he is more likely to be right for you.
2006-10-16 05:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're lazy then a guys gonna not bother if you are trying to get work and put forth an effort to make something of yourself then it would be no issue.
2006-10-16 04:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he can. It just depends on you. Are you laying around the house eating ice cream, or do you have a vision and are actually trying to find something you love?
2006-10-16 04:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wateva r u bein serious its up 2 the couple and if he dnt wanna pay the whole lot thn no cause the only plus about havin a job is tht u can help fund it
2006-10-16 04:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by hiyaihopeicanhelp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋