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My wife goes clubbing every saturday night with her group of firends guy and girl friends..... she dances with other guys too... she likes having good time.....
I dont care about that but iz it ok????

2006-10-16 04:32:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

26 answers

Why don't you go with them?? my husband don't dance and I like to dance, so I do dance with other guys, its who you go home with or home to that matters, there is nothing wrong with going out and having a good time, but I like my husband going with too, if he doesn't want to thats ok, I always act the same if he is there or not, if you trust your wife then its ok, You should think about going with them and being with your wife,

2006-10-16 04:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you don't care then why are you thinking about it? Well to be honest i being a wife a mother i don't think there is anything wrong. She is just have a good time and just because she is married to you she does not have to stop having a good time.

If nothing i think you should go with her as well and have a good time and be a part of what she likes, this way she would only want to go out with you..

2006-10-16 04:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by sim 1 · 0 0

AS long as you don't care about it then it is ok.

Personally I would never go anywhere like that without my man. I think even the appearance of cheating is wrong.

However, it is a trust issue. If she is only dancing and comes home directly afterwards then no harm is done. But like I said... I wouldn't do it. Why would I want to make it difficult for my man to trust me?

2006-10-16 04:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I dont think its ok... i think you should go with her... if she honestly LOVES to dance then it shouldnt be a problem for you to go.. but if she does mind... then maybe its not the dancing she REALLY loves... maybe its the attention she gets. Married couple shouldnt really go parting seperatly all the time! maybe here and there but not EVERY saturday. Maybe if you guys party together it will make you a stronger couple :) you know where she is and what shes doing and vise versa :)

2006-10-16 04:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by ZaNy_kiDd 3 · 0 0

I would be worried if i were you

clubs are where the sh%t goes down

i mean everytime you guys have an argument or something you are going to be worrying what she gets up to at the club. Tag along and have a great time with her.

2006-10-16 04:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by jess 2 · 0 0

Its perfectly fine. My female cousin and I use to go out every Saturday and dance with the opposite sex as well. I was in a commited relationship (he was home with the kids) and she had a hubby at home (with the kids) We would stay until the clubs closed, stop at Popeyes for our chicken and went home with our chicken and buzz to our mates.

2006-10-16 04:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0 0

Gonna loose her sooner or later but if ya don't care y post the question she is accepting application every Saturday night.

2006-10-16 04:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think you ought to go with her and have fun yourself (maybe take a couple of your friends), plus, especially if you stay sober, you can keep her safe and make sure she gets home safely. I don't think there's anything wrong with another man admiring your woman but c'mon, if you aren't there, lots of men are likely to try to cross certain lines to see what they can get away with, to say the very least.

2006-10-16 04:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0 0

As long as she is doing th biz at home for you in ALL departments it is fine..and of course you are doing the same...otherwise she will be getting it O and A and Outdoor every Saturday!

2006-10-16 04:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

why isn't she with you, when your a younger married couple it's ok to go out together, and it's ok for her to go out once in a while, but whats up with this every weekend, you need to seriously take a active role in your relationship, and either start going, and get involved, or find something else, for you two to do together, the constant going out can lead to problems, get in the game man!

2006-10-16 04:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0 0

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