Ok, my girlfriend and I broke up three months ago, and it has sucked for me. But i just started moving on, when one of my good friends, who is friends with my ex told me about how much she misses me, and im the only one that understands her, and how we are going to get back together. Here's the problem, since then my ex has been "with"another guy for the past month, but they are fighting all of the time, and she isnt happy with it. They havent even messed around because my ex thinks about me. I really care about her, and i miss her a ton. We have even been talking lately, which we havent done for over a month. Should I be concerned that they are still together, or should I just be confident in what our common friend is telling me and wait for them to "officially" break up?
2006-10-16 04:31:27 · 21 answers · asked by whatitdo52253 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well its obvious tha she stills has feelings for you. she figures tha she rather be in the wrong realitionship wit da wrong person then to not be in a realitionship at all. so if you know she stills care then maybe you two should get together and talk about it. becuz if she cares ask her to break up wit da guy who is causing her so much heartache and get wit da guy who actually cares about her. for as officially breaking up you can always ask her whats going on between them... be direct. good luck.
2006-10-16 04:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by simply keshia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend, I will suggest that if you really love her,you should go and apologise her. If you do so,the chances are that you are once again together. If She is with someone else today,it may have two reasons:-
1- She is not a good girl.
2- She wants to forget the misery but dont know the correct way to do so.
You should not put the EGO in b/w the relationships. Go to her and try to clear out the misunderstandings between both of you.
Good Luck.
2006-10-16 05:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that once she was with the other guy only did she realize what a good guy you were compared to other men and wants you back. Now she has learnt from her mistake and wants you. And you say you love her, then what are you waiting for, just tell her you are ready and she will leave him. Think she is waiting for your reply to breakup with him.
If you really love her then you would care about her and you saying she is fighting with him so she must be going through hell. Just forgive her and take her back. Now that she knows what it is like to be with another man, she will never leave you again.
Good luck and hope you two get together again.
2006-10-16 04:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must end whatever relationship she is in. You can let her know that if she wasn't in a relationship you wouldn't mind trying again with her. Leave it at that. Don't date until she breaks up. If she is truly interested in you still she will end her relationship because she will be confident she can get back with you.
Before you do that though, stop and consider why you broke up in the first place.
Good Luck!
2006-10-16 04:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should be concerned that she is still with this guy! if you want to know for sure just straight up ask her!!!! if you had so much of a good thing rthen you should be able to tell if she is lying to you or not, you know. if you want her back then go for it. but remember an ex is an ex for a reason. be careful
2006-10-16 04:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from this story it deffiently sounds like your younge...so from that I would say yes its hard to get over your first love if thats what it was but if you guys broke up there was probley a reason...did u date anyone else????maybe you should try see what else is out there???distance does make the heart grow finder...but from my own experince I was with my now fiance for 4 years we broke up dated other people and then we ended up getting back together and now were engaged...oct 18 will be 5 years...I say see what else is out there...
2006-10-16 04:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait until you know for a fact she's done with him. The two of you will start more problems in the situation than there should be.
2006-10-16 04:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep moving on that's not fair to you. She wants to keep you as a safety net. Shes just playing games with you and that other guy. I feel sorry for the both of you. Shes not good enough for you or him. And that friend is no friend to see that you were finally starting to feeling better and she came and had to disrepute your life with that drama.
2006-10-16 04:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by roni_lane81981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to ask and talk to her yourself becuz little do you know maybe your friend that is telling everything that has to do withyour ex might be bending the truth and just wants you guys to turn out the way your friend wants you to. soyou should ask her yourself just cuz you can't be sure if what your friend hears from your ex's mouth might not be what she's saying. okay well good luck and best wishes.
2006-10-16 04:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to be your girlfriend again... if she really misses you she'll take you back in a heartbeat. She is proberly only with this other guy to make you jelous & just waiting for something better to come along ......like you?
2006-10-16 04:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by Dannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋