I'm currently in a relationship with a woman that is 5 years older than me. I think she wants to move this to the next level soon. I know she cares and loves me very much and if I don't feel as much right now, should I let her go?
2006-10-16 04:00:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should be honest with her and show her your true feelings. if you feel that you are not ready to move to this next level you mention, tell her so, she can either give you time to decide what you want or if she is not willing to wait for you, then you would both together decide to end the relationship. But this woman needs to know the truth why you are moving on and letting her go.
2006-10-16 04:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO way what are you trying to do break her heart?? Unless your just playing with her emotions. Sorry, anyway to answer your question I would just sit her down and ask her where you stand at this point in your relationship and if she says that she is ready to take it to the next level let her know how you feel don't just dump her. You need to let her know that right now you just want to take it slow and if she doesn't understand that your not ready for that kind of commitment then say "If you really love me then you will understand and wait for when the both of us are ready."
Good Luck and you better hope she doesn't have a big brother that doesn't like you. No just joking.
2006-10-16 04:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't see her as any type of option for wife, then you should tell her you need to 'find yourself' or something. She is probably ready for the next step and if you know for a fact that you can't do that right now it is better to let her find someone that is.
I'm not sure your age, but this has been my experience.
A man doesn't really know what he wants from life or who his is, and furthermore isn't ready for a commited relationship until he is about 30. Give or take depending on the person. If she is around 30 and you are around 25, most likely you are looking for two different things.
2006-10-16 04:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five years isn't too much of an age difference...you two should talk about your expectations and future goals and thoughts... if they are similar then go for it but if they are way off then you should re-evaluate your situation and if need be end things but in a good way... good luck
2006-10-16 04:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, don't let this go on till she is too deep to ever recover from the pain of being dumped. address the issue asap!
2006-10-16 04:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-16 04:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by bearbigkidben 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not fair to lead her on
2006-10-16 04:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋