he says he loves me.he proposed me n i said yes. but i dont feel comfortable wen he kisses me. i told him not to dat n he promised me dat he wont. but nxt day he is same again. rather increasing day by day. wen i tel him not to do dat he says dat i dont trust him.......wat shud i do. i dont wanna loose him bt i dnt feel comfortable doing wat he wants.
2006-10-16 03:58:48 · 11 answers · asked by simi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
grow up first of all. i believe your only like 16 years old and all you are saying is b.s. if it is true.....you dont' trust him.....you dont' like kissing him....you don't want to do anything he wants to do...why are you with him? just to have someone there? but all this....you dont' want him to date and possibly find the person he is supposed to be with......but...over all....grow up.
2006-10-16 04:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is any doubt in your mind then you should not marry him. You need to be 100% sure he is the one for you, and if you dont like the way he kisses and dont want to kiss him then sounds like he not b the one for u to be marrin
2006-10-16 04:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're flattered that he asked and you answered yes because that's the standard answer. You don't seem ready or comfortable with him. Obviously he's not the one for you. Find one that you like and love and are comfortable with and wait for HIM to ask you.
2006-10-16 04:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you are not comfortable when he kisses you... how do you expect your married life to be if you cannot even kiss him. be honest to yourself and to this guy and tell him how you feel. seems that he is not the right one for you.
2006-10-16 04:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like your not ready for this. If you love him, there will be no problem kissing him. How old are you?
2006-10-16 04:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by GQ69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cannot give yourself the way he wants, you won't last long in the marriage--when you love someone, you are willing to please each other-as you have already made him aware of your dislike, but he continues with action, is already a sign of incompatability on both sides
2006-10-16 04:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
postone the wedding and give yourself some time to think about how you want your future to shape out
2006-10-16 04:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good if there are some one loves us,but in this Case better to seat with them and explain for him about what he is doing ,and listen to hi"s explanation and if you feel he is understand your position ,it is good to gives him one more chance,
2006-10-16 04:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u agree to marry a guyt that you dont even want kissing you?
2006-10-16 04:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made a really big mistake and tell him you need more time....
...and learn to type or talk or both
2006-10-16 04:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by Bar19one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋