I like a girl and she is showing signs that the likes me, but she's playing the avoid game. We are college age!
There is this other girl who is a common friend to the two of us. Girls, is it acceptable to ask the friend to find out what's going on and if she likes me? I really don't know what else to do because she makes it hard to talk to her by avoiding me.
Come on ladies, I need an honest opinion!!!
2006-10-16 03:04:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She already knows I like her. I did tell her that! I just need to know what's going on!
2006-10-16 03:21:48 · update #1
She can, if she's good at it. She needs to be like, "Do you like so and so because it kinda seems like it?", and if yes don't tell her that your friend told you, tell her that you think she's been acting sort of flirty lately and wanted to know, because you like her too
2006-10-16 03:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok honestly i think you should find a specific time to talk to her. if she is avoiding you she probably doesn't really like you (rude awakening). So maybe you should ask the friend what's going on if you can't get a hold of her. i think a college girl knows what she wants this isn't a middle school situation.
2006-10-16 10:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by smores1413 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not be right to get someone else on your behalf to talk to her. Go up to her and tell her how you feel, if you don't want to be that upfront. Ask her out for lunch or to meet you somewhere. If you want to be subtle ask her if you can speak to her for a minute and if she declines ask her when will it be suitable for her. Then tell her how you feel about her, be sure to mention that she does not have to feel obligated to return that feeling and that if she just wants to remain friends then you will repsect that. Then you guys can take things from there. Best of luck amigo and don't be shy. You won't know unless you try.
2006-10-16 10:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no no and no. Do not go through a friend it shows that you are not man enough to speak with her yourself. Take a chance and show a little vunerability. Women like that in a man any way.
2006-10-16 10:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her friend. Why don't you just ask her out on a date. You said you were in college so why are you still acting like your in high school?
2006-10-16 10:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is acceptable to approach her friend to ask her opinion but don't be surprised if she is unwilling to betray her friends trust.
Why don't you just ask the girl in question directly?
If you are 'college-age' surely you are mature enough simply to speak to her?
2006-10-16 10:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My honest opinion is to try your hardest to catch up with her and ask her personally, not her friend. Girls like it when a man is bold enough to come up and talk to us. You never know untill you ask!
2006-10-16 10:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by Blessed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Why is it when you like a girl, her best friend starts liking you?"
Moral of the story: Ask the girl not her friend.
Ask her out maybe? Seeing how she responds to that might be helpful.
2006-10-16 10:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by demi-kun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Ask her friend. It works in high school, college, and old age
2006-10-16 10:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by cadodevine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is acceptable.may be you should talk to her and give her some time to think of that coz now you 2 is still study in the college.you should try to cool down yourself and don't let the love get you a problem.
2006-10-16 11:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by desmond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋